Are you one of the people who loves feet? Or, are you one of those people who just cannot understand what could possibly be sexual about your lover’s feet? Let’s talk about foot fetish and see if you may want to pay extra attention to your lover’s feet.
Why wouldn’t we think a lot of our feet and give them extra attention. Our feet serve very real purposes – like giving the body a foundation and carry and support our bodies. But we often forget or ignore our feet. However, most people love a foot massage and there any many foot creams on the market to make our tired, hot, weary feet feel better.
What is a fetish – Webster’s Dictionary says: “Fetish is an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion, an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.” So, a true foot fetish means the person has an inability to be aroused without the presence or fantasy of a foot.
There are various degrees of fetish – they include:
Optional – The fetish is part of a person’s sexual repertoire and an alternative to more conventional fantasies and behaviors but is not necessary or favored for sexual gratification. (For example – The man massages his partner’s feet, eroticizes them with adoration and loving kisses then moves up her calves to her inner thighs and vulva with the same sensual caressing.)
Preferred – Being in active fetishism is better for the individual than not. (For example – When presented with a sexy foot and a sexy woman, he wants the foot but will engage with both.)
Exclusive – In order for the individual to become aroused the object of desire must be incorporated through fantasy and or reality. (For example – To get hard, to come or experience any sexual arousal, he has to have access to feet be it tangible or fantastical.)
So, if you enjoy having your feet massaged and kissed – you may have an “optional fetish”.
The common theory about how a foot fetish begins is that, when a child – usually a boy – crawls around and views his mother’s feet. He may even reach out to touch or play with her feet, maybe trying to suck her toes. It may be that we are predisposed to feeling erotically about feet because they have apocrine sweat glands. These are a type of pheromone producing sweat gland like the ones in our armpits and in our genital areas.
Feet are a part of our body that has sensitive areas – so its natural that we enjoy paying attention to our lover’s feet or having them lavish attention on our feet.
However – if you are more serious about foot play in your love making, then you will likely enjoy some specific actions. Foot fetishists enjoy kissing, sniffing, licking, and caressing their partner’s feet before, during or after sex. Some might like their partners to jerk them off or penetrate them with their feet.
Some other activities include:
Check back for step by step instructions on how to thrill your partner – through their feet.
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