Are you ready for love? Are you in the mood for love? You may not be sure at this point. Maybe you’re not quite ready yet? Once you start to bring romance into your life or if this is your first dive into the pool of romance, there is something you will notice. You will start to experience a wonderful new mood which is inspired by your new romance with your partner. Even if you’re married, you may not have really been romantic. Now is the time. Let’s get started… setting the mood for romance.
You can start off slowly with the familiar and traditional romantic gestures like holding doors open, flowers, candy, little love letters and special attention to his or her needs. Once you make these romantic gestures habits in your relationship, you will notice an increase in your appetite for more romance and similar moods. One way to satisfy your newfound appetite is with some sensuous fun in addition to romantic ideas.
When you’re ready to add romantic acts into your daily routine with your partner, be creative. For example, you can buy decorative pillows for the bedroom with “Tonight” and “Not Tonight” printed on either side. You can use this as your own private signal for each other and your intentions. You may want to use teddy bears that say “Him” and “Her” to show who is taking the initiative to heat things up. Other couples will use more subtle indications as to their intentions in the bedroom.
When you want to think of your own things to do, make up your own ‘code’ to say when the mood strikes you or as a clue to what kind of mood you’re in. Maybe your woman will say “I’m getting tired” and then you can say, “Well, then let’s get you to bed.” Try something even more subtle like saying the same word three times in the same sentence like ‘blue’ or another obvious word. Walk up to your partner and begin humming ‘your song’ in his or her ear. For couples with children or others in the house, you can do something like Carol Burnett did in her television show when she tugged her earlobe as a private signal. Use whatever type of signal you both agree will be your own private foreplay that will make you want to rush off to make love!
Occasionally, use something extra special that you and your partner enjoy to get in the mood like chocolate! Chocolate is one of the few things that most men and women share a love for and always enjoy more. You can use chocolate in various ways to spark romance or initiate foreplay with your partner. You can give your partner a gift of their favorite chocolate and that can be enough to get him or her in the mood. If you want something a little more intimate, bring his or her favorite chocolates to bed one night and feed each other. To heat things up more, you can insist that your partner has lick off the chocolate that melts on your fingers. To take it a step further, you can ‘accidentally’ get some melted chocolate on your partner’s body! Lick it off, making sure to get it all. Be sure to let your partner know how good it tastes and definitely do it again and again!
I’ve heard that chocolate is an aphrodisiac. Why not test the sensual power of chocolate in a variety of ways with your partner.