Certified in Love

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Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into a relationship and especially considering marriage with a person that you want to change is an exercise in futility. Another one of my favorite ideas is that you should love a person – faults and all. We all have “faults” and shortcomings etc – but they are all a part of who we are as a person.

I’ve always said that the people I loved the most have always been friends first and often friends after we broke up – although not right after we broke up 🙂 That leads into the main ingredients of love – they include:

  1. Friendship
  2. Trust
  3. Respect
  4. Passion
  5. Communication

Something I’ve also said many times is that it is hard to love someone else and to accept their love – when you don’t love yourself. That isn’t a selfish love – but a healthy self love.

Letting go of the past is another important element of a healthy loving relationship. In order to enter into a new relationship — we have to let go of the past. We need to be brutally honest with ourselves to determine why a relationship didn’t work out – and then look for any patterns in past relationships.

There are six types of love – do you know the names and what each means? Do you know that some combinations are healthy and some are disastrous? This course outlines the full description of each type of love, which kinds of love are a good match and which ones are not — it gives new meaning to the idea that just being “in love” is enough to make a good relationship.

These are some sections in Loveology University’s Course on Love –

  • Definition of Love
  • Ingredients of Love
  • Letting Go Of The Past
  • Rejection
  • Forgiveness
  • Finding Everlasting Love
  • Flirting
  • Communicating Love
  • Types of Love
  • Intimacy + Passion
  • Love vs. Lust
  • Love Around the House
  • How To Love A Woman
  • How To Love A Man
  • Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn the 5 Ingredients of Love
  • You want to Find and Keep Everlasting Love
  • You want to Know How to Love A Woman versus a Man
  • You want to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

Welcome to Loveology University’s Love Certification Course. Who else offers a certification on a course as valuable as love? In this course you’ll learn about the history of love, the different kinds of love and how to get the love you need. From self-love, romantic love to passionate love, this course offers groundbreaking techniques to make your life a loving one. You’ll learn about the 5 essential ingredients to finding love, 12 keys to keeping love, how to love a woman verses how to love a man and some fascinating statistics on love around the world. So if you want more love in your life, start by becoming certified in LU’s course on love.

For more information, click here.

Oral Sex Certification from Loveology University

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When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link to a video about men who expect oral sex and prefer their woman swallow but they refuse to kiss her after. That is a whole other topic — but that was fresh on my mind when this host told me that. So, I gave him a very hard time about his behavior and his refusal to please his wife orally. She was in the background and it seemed that she appreciated me taking up for her 🙂

Do you want to understand more about oral sex? Do you want to learn how to give mind blowing oral sex? Does your partner want more oral sex, but you’re not confident about your skills? Then you need this study at home course from Loveology University. You will not believe the details that are included.   The course covers male and female oral sex details, some history of oral sex, and much more.


These are some of the topics in the Oral Sex Course –

  • Webster’s Definition of Oral Sex, Cunnilingus & Fellatio
  • What Oral Sex Is  & What Oral Sex Is Not
  • Slang Words – Cunnilingus, Vagina, Fellatio & Penis
  • Oral Sex Myths
  • Oral Sex and Women  & Oral Sex and Men
  • Getting Your Lover to Go Down
  • How to Put a Condom on With Your Mouth
  • Techniques for His Pleasure  & Techniques for Her Pleasure
  • Tongue Workout
  • Oral Sex Positions  – Male with Female, Female with Female & Male with Male
  • Sexy Oral Games
  • Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • Oral Sex and Your Health
  • Safer Oral Sex  & Oral Sex Concerns

There is information about to clear up common myths and misconceptions about oral sex. Much detail is included about the various body parts in the genital area – their name, their location and their functions.  And of course there are plenty of tips, techniques and much more – including intructions on how to put a condom on with the mouth.

This is the official listing for the course –

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn Dozens of New Oral Sex Techniques
  • You want to Avoid Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • You want to Know How to Get Your Lover to Go Down on You
  • You want to Discover Advanced Oral Sex Positions

Welcome to Loveology University’s Oral Sex Certification Course. Inside you will learn all the techniques on the art of going down on a man and a woman. This course is sure to expand your knowledge on how, where, when and why to give or receive oral sex. Included are tips on staying safe while having fun such as putting a condom on with your mouth. There are dozens of different styles of doing the act itself, unique positions to enhance oral pleasure, even oral sex games to make your lovemaking an unforgettable experience so you both can enjoy all that you have learned from this mouth watering course!

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

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Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information.

Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material?

Below are full details about Oprah’s show.

It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica. Plus,  very well known porn star and entrepreneur, Jenna Jameson was a guest. Warning: This content is intended for adult audiences only.

Investigating Porn and Erotica –Lisa Ling reports on the adult film industry. Why more women are using pornography. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-lisa-ling-pornography
The World’s Most Famous Porn Star – Jenna Jameson shares the secret to her success and how she changed the industry. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-jenna-jameson
Beginner’s Guide to Erotica – Owners of an erotica boutique reveal the five things you need to start exploring your sensual side. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-erotica-guide-boutique

Full details – http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20091007-porn-erotica-report

Are you ready to learn more about sex, loves and relationships from an expert in the field? Click here.

Welcome to the Loveology University ®
If you are ready for a Love Changing experience

At Loveology University we are dedicated to providing the most accurate and innovative educational courses to appeal to a broad audience by offering a friendly environment where you can choose from a wide selection of courses for as little as $9.95 all the way up to $1,999.95 (full love coach certification) and learn at your own pace. All of our courses come in digital formats including e-books, audios, videos and slide shows for easy learning.

We guarantee that all of our courses are of the highest quality and hope that you will be completely satisfied with your new found knowledge. We believe that Loveology University is your community for information on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality, which means that we’ll do everything in our power to ensure that you not only receive the very best in education, but that you’ll enjoy yourself while doing so. To that end, we’ve enhanced your online experience with plenty of FREE material that includes:

  • The LU Library where you can read dozens of articles and the most asked questions from singles and couples.
  • Loveology TV (LUTV) and where you can watch 10 webisodes of love tips from students at Loveology University.
  • Sex Match where you can listen to 10 exciting rounds between LU Founder Dr. Ava Cadell and Renowned Urologist Dr. Jennifer Berman.
  • Research and Quizzes will educate and entertain you and they are all in the FREE ACCESS area of LU.

Part of our mission at Loveology University is to increase worldwide education and awareness on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality for adults of all ages over 18, genders, cultures, educational backgrounds and sexual orientations to enjoy and enrich their love lives, whether single or in a relationship.

Loveology University Course Catalog

Loveology University offers three Certified Long- Term Courses designed for Life Coaches, Consultants, Home Party Planners, Adult Store Owners and Entrepreneurs that want to start their own practice as a Love Coach:

  • Certified Love Coach Program (Loveologist Course)
  • Certified Master Sexpert Program
  • Certified Romantic Program

Loveology University offers dozens of Individual Courses for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of Educational Adult Videos for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of e-Books and Audio courses

Are you ready to learn more about sex, loves and relationships from an expert in the field? Click here.

What is On Your List of Sexual Taboos

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Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty – but I think this list is long enough to get things started – I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comments are welcome here or private message.

Here is the beginning of the list – what do you think should be added?

  1. anal sex
  2. oral sex for him or her
  3. swallowing
  4. having your genital area shaven – male and/or female
  5. mammary intercourse
  6. anything sexual or stimulating that involves feet
  7. bondage, S & M – any BDSM
  8. sex on a plane
  9. sex outdoors or in public
  10. sex with multi partners
  11. sex in a pool or Jacuzzi
  12. masturbating in front of someone else
  13. masturbating alone
  14. shaving your partner’s gential area
  15. sex at work
  16. masturbating at work – phone sex or chatting
  17. masturbating anywhere while having phone sex, chatting etc
  18. having an open relationship
  19. watching porn alone or with someone else
  20. dating, having sex or a relationship with someone who is significantly older or younger
  21. fantasy and role playing with your partner
  22. golden showers
  23. piercings – not your ears
  24. watching others having sex
  25. fetishes of any kind
  26. phone sex
  27. Sex toys
  28. Licking your partner’s full body

PS – If you want to get a glimpse into some sexual activities that are “taboo” check this video for a course that gives you full information about many of these options — http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IHS7DDFly48

Want to learn more? http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/ShortCourseDetails.aspx?CourseID=48

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Flirting Body Language

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Flirting is a favorite activity of many men and women. But how good are you at reading his or her body language when they are flirting? Their words may say “yes” but their body language says “no”.

Flirting body language is complicated to understand and is often misinterpreted. Men flirt in different ways compared to women. How can you tell if someone is flirting with you? Does she like me? Is he interested in me? Read on for facts and tips to understand flirting signals.

Flirting Men

There are five standard body signals that indicate a man is flirting: eye contact, raising the eyebrows, giving the masculine impression, touching self, and leaning towards

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The first sign of attraction a man gives is catching your eye. If he moves on to watch another person and doesn’t look back at you, it means that he is not interested. If he glimpses at you, looks away, and then back at you again, it is a very clear indication he is attracted to you. Sometimes, eye contact doesn’t mean anything. But, if it lasts longer, it means something is running through his mind – you. The second signal, raising the eyebrow is not a very strong indication and most of the time it is done unconsciously. It often means that he finds you interesting or sexy.

The third flirting sign is that a man squares his shoulders and tries to stand tall and straight. When sitting, his feet and legs are apart. A man also tends to hook his thumbs over his belt or through his belt loop. These actions show his masculinity, with hopes that he would acquire admiration from you.

Lastly, a man who is attracted to you tries to get closer to you or lean his body towards you. This can be done intentionally or unconsciously.

Flirting Women

Research shows that women give body language signals five to six times more than men. Women give many signs they are flirting and these are easy to spot. The most common action is preening. A woman tends to play, stroke or comb her hair and sometimes toss it over her shoulder. A strong flirting preening action is when a woman uses her lips in her flirting. Licking the lips, eating slowly, drinking with poise while having eye contact, and putting on lipstick can easily seduce a man.

Slowly crossing or stroking the legs is a clear intentional flirting action by women. She may tend to adjust her clothes to expose more skin. Playing with an object, like a glass, can be a sign she likes you. But make sure she is looking at you while doing it, otherwise it means she is not interested.

“I like You”

The general signs saying that he or she is interested in you include; smiling, longer eye contact, preening, licking the lips, raising the eyebrows, playing with the hair, looking away and then back again, leaning toward you, head slightly tilted, mirroring your actions, good posture, frequent nodding, laughing, and many more. If you spot these signs, its a great time to take the next step.

“I’m Really Not Interested”

How would you know if that quick glance did not mean anything and a connection is not happening? Watch out for these body language signals; looking away and not looking back, looking at other people, slouching, sighing loudly, passive expression, playing with an object without looking at you while you talk, dull eyes, crossing the arms, and the like.

Body language can be a strong reinforcement of messages especially during flirting, seduction, and dating. Each person has different ways to express their desires, but most of these actions have general meanings that are easy to decipher and learn. Use the tips above to get started and with practice you will become a body language expert.

5 Tips For You to Get The Girl

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Among the many emotions that man was destined to experience, it seems that love could be the best. No wonder many people want to find their own true love, hope to be happy and live a life that is full of contentment and satisfaction in spite of the many trials life has to offer.

According to some surveys, most of the people want to marry some day, the desire to marry is why they are willing to go out on dates. In the U.S. alone, nearly 53% said they have dated more than one person at the same time.

However, the concept boils down to the fact that even if dating seems to be the ideal ways to start to develop a great relationship founded on true love, it cannot be concluded that the activity is relatively easy.

Let’s start with the idea of getting a girl. Many boys are having a hard time finding the best strategy to get girls. This is because many boys have fears, especially the fear of rejection.

So for those guys who want to know how to get a girl and ask her on a date, here are five ways tips that will help you get one and have fun:

1. Develop a dazzling personality

According to some statistical reports, almost 30% of the adult population in the U.S. who are engaged into dating activities stated that the most important attribute they are looking for in a guy is his personality. That is why most girls insist his looks are not that important, because his personality is important.

If you really want to succeed in getting a girl, develop the impression that you have the best personality in the world. This can be projected through your sense of humor, confidence, and the way you carry the conversation with wit. The best way to develop that impression – is to actually take the time and effort to develop the personality, it will help you attract the girl and likely make you much happier.

2. Be cool

The key to getting a girl would be to avoid projecting an air of desperation. Even if you have not dated a girl yet, try to be cool and create an impression that you want to get the girl because you like her and not because you are in desperate need of a partner.

3. Be ready for rejections

The problem with most people, especially guys, is that their dating and relationship expectations are too high. Almost 62% of people who date have admitted that people’s probabilities and expectations are very high these days.

So, it is necessary for people to learn to face rejections, especially men, so that getting girls would be easier. Keep in mind that girls can still say no even if you have the best car, good looks, and dazzling personality.

In the cases where you were not able to get the girl you want, try to reflect on what might have caused her to reject you. As the cliché says – there are other fish in the sea. In other words, there are other girls out there and evidently the girls that turned you down, weren’t right for you.

4. Consider Why She Said “No”

There are many cases where a girl might say “no” for two possible reasons: one is that she does not like you, and the second reason is that she wants to go out with you but not tonight. These are two different situations that you need to clearly understand.

The problem with some guys is that they take it personally when they receive some forms of rejections. So it is better to analyze the situation and the intention behind her “NO.”

5. Be casual

The best way to get a girl is to make her feel that the date would be very casual and would not involve conventional date things or anything that would imply romantic involvement.

What matters most is for the girl to enjoy her time with you. Then if you find that the first date turns into a good relationship in the future, the memory of your first date should have been vested on good recall.

The bottom line is that guys should never make the girls feel pressured into saying “yes” every time they are being asked to go out. On a final note – make sure she will be comfortable and would feel that she will be in good hands.

These are a few of the keys to successfully getting the girl to go on a date. If you are interested in learning much more about getting ready for a successful relationship and learning to date and truly connect with a potential partner – you may want to work with a relationship and dating coach. Feel free to learn more in my ebook – Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion – download your free copy today.