Certified in Love

Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into a relationship and especially considering marriage with a person that you want to change is an exercise in futility. Another one of my favorite ideas is that you should love a person – faults and all. We all have “faults” and shortcomings etc – but they are all a part of who we are as a person.

I’ve always said that the people I loved the most have always been friends first and often friends after we broke up – although not right after we broke up :) That leads into the main ingredients of love – they include:

  1. Friendship
  2. Trust
  3. Respect
  4. Passion
  5. Communication

Something I’ve also said many times is that it is hard to love someone else and to accept their love – when you don’t love yourself. That isn’t a selfish love – but a healthy self love.

Letting go of the past is another important element of a healthy loving relationship. In order to enter into a new relationship — we have to let go of the past. We need to be brutally honest with ourselves to determine why a relationship didn’t work out – and then look for any patterns in past relationships.

There are six types of love – do you know the names and what each means? Do you know that some combinations are healthy and some are disastrous? This course outlines the full description of each type of love, which kinds of love are a good match and which ones are not — it gives new meaning to the idea that just being “in love” is enough to make a good relationship.

These are some sections in Loveology University’s Course on Love –

  • Definition of Love
  • Ingredients of Love
  • Letting Go Of The Past
  • Rejection
  • Forgiveness
  • Finding Everlasting Love
  • Flirting
  • Communicating Love
  • Types of Love
  • Intimacy + Passion
  • Love vs. Lust
  • Love Around the House
  • How To Love A Woman
  • How To Love A Man
  • Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn the 5 Ingredients of Love
  • You want to Find and Keep Everlasting Love
  • You want to Know How to Love A Woman versus a Man
  • You want to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

Welcome to Loveology University’s Love Certification Course. Who else offers a certification on a course as valuable as love? In this course you’ll learn about the history of love, the different kinds of love and how to get the love you need. From self-love, romantic love to passionate love, this course offers groundbreaking techniques to make your life a loving one. You’ll learn about the 5 essential ingredients to finding love, 12 keys to keeping love, how to love a woman verses how to love a man and some fascinating statistics on love around the world. So if you want more love in your life, start by becoming certified in LU’s course on love.

For more information, click here.

Oral Sex Certification from Loveology University

When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link to a video about men who expect oral sex and prefer their woman swallow but they refuse to kiss her after. That is a whole other topic — but that was fresh on my mind when this host told me that. So, I gave him a very hard time about his behavior and his refusal to please his wife orally. She was in the background and it seemed that she appreciated me taking up for her :)

Do you want to understand more about oral sex? Do you want to learn how to give mind blowing oral sex? Does your partner want more oral sex, but you’re not confident about your skills? Then you need this study at home course from Loveology University. You will not believe the details that are included.   The course covers male and female oral sex details, some history of oral sex, and much more.


These are some of the topics in the Oral Sex Course –

  • Webster’s Definition of Oral Sex, Cunnilingus & Fellatio
  • What Oral Sex Is  & What Oral Sex Is Not
  • Slang Words – Cunnilingus, Vagina, Fellatio & Penis
  • Oral Sex Myths
  • Oral Sex and Women  & Oral Sex and Men
  • Getting Your Lover to Go Down
  • How to Put a Condom on With Your Mouth
  • Techniques for His Pleasure  & Techniques for Her Pleasure
  • Tongue Workout
  • Oral Sex Positions  – Male with Female, Female with Female & Male with Male
  • Sexy Oral Games
  • Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • Oral Sex and Your Health
  • Safer Oral Sex  & Oral Sex Concerns

There is information about to clear up common myths and misconceptions about oral sex. Much detail is included about the various body parts in the genital area – their name, their location and their functions.  And of course there are plenty of tips, techniques and much more – including intructions on how to put a condom on with the mouth.

This is the official listing for the course –

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn Dozens of New Oral Sex Techniques
  • You want to Avoid Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • You want to Know How to Get Your Lover to Go Down on You
  • You want to Discover Advanced Oral Sex Positions

Welcome to Loveology University’s Oral Sex Certification Course. Inside you will learn all the techniques on the art of going down on a man and a woman. This course is sure to expand your knowledge on how, where, when and why to give or receive oral sex. Included are tips on staying safe while having fun such as putting a condom on with your mouth. There are dozens of different styles of doing the act itself, unique positions to enhance oral pleasure, even oral sex games to make your lovemaking an unforgettable experience so you both can enjoy all that you have learned from this mouth watering course!

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information.

Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material?

Below are full details about Oprah’s show.

It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica. Plus,  very well known porn star and entrepreneur, Jenna Jameson was a guest. Warning: This content is intended for adult audiences only.

Investigating Porn and Erotica -Lisa Ling reports on the adult film industry. Why more women are using pornography. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-lisa-ling-pornography
The World’s Most Famous Porn Star – Jenna Jameson shares the secret to her success and how she changed the industry. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-jenna-jameson
Beginner’s Guide to Erotica – Owners of an erotica boutique reveal the five things you need to start exploring your sensual side. http://www.oprah.com/article/oprahshow/20091007-tows-erotica-guide-boutique

Full details – http://www.oprah.com/dated/oprahshow/oprahshow-20091007-porn-erotica-report

Are you ready to learn more about sex, loves and relationships from an expert in the field? Click here.

Welcome to the Loveology University ®
If you are ready for a Love Changing experience

At Loveology University we are dedicated to providing the most accurate and innovative educational courses to appeal to a broad audience by offering a friendly environment where you can choose from a wide selection of courses for as little as $9.95 all the way up to $1,999.95 (full love coach certification) and learn at your own pace. All of our courses come in digital formats including e-books, audios, videos and slide shows for easy learning.

We guarantee that all of our courses are of the highest quality and hope that you will be completely satisfied with your new found knowledge. We believe that Loveology University is your community for information on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality, which means that we’ll do everything in our power to ensure that you not only receive the very best in education, but that you’ll enjoy yourself while doing so. To that end, we’ve enhanced your online experience with plenty of FREE material that includes:

  • The LU Library where you can read dozens of articles and the most asked questions from singles and couples.
  • Loveology TV (LUTV) and where you can watch 10 webisodes of love tips from students at Loveology University.
  • Sex Match where you can listen to 10 exciting rounds between LU Founder Dr. Ava Cadell and Renowned Urologist Dr. Jennifer Berman.
  • Research and Quizzes will educate and entertain you and they are all in the FREE ACCESS area of LU.

Part of our mission at Loveology University is to increase worldwide education and awareness on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality for adults of all ages over 18, genders, cultures, educational backgrounds and sexual orientations to enjoy and enrich their love lives, whether single or in a relationship.

Loveology University Course Catalog

Loveology University offers three Certified Long- Term Courses designed for Life Coaches, Consultants, Home Party Planners, Adult Store Owners and Entrepreneurs that want to start their own practice as a Love Coach:

  • Certified Love Coach Program (Loveologist Course)
  • Certified Master Sexpert Program
  • Certified Romantic Program

Loveology University offers dozens of Individual Courses for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of Educational Adult Videos for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of e-Books and Audio courses

Are you ready to learn more about sex, loves and relationships from an expert in the field? Click here.

Love Quotes for Valentines Day

Sometimes actions speak louder than words, but there are times when words are important too. In a relationship, each partner wants and needs verbal assurance of their partner’s love. Saying I love you and expressing how much important your partner is to you is one of the best ways to assure your partner. So, on Valentine’s Day, lovers should not miss an great opportunity to say something nice to a person he or she loves.

You might have heard these worn out phrases:

• You are the love of my life
• You are my only true love
• I cannot live without you

But why not try some new and different. For instance, 1 Corinthians tells us that “love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not envy, it is not proud…”

If you want literary pieces, there is this quotable Shakespeare. Listed below are lines from varying literary pieces of Shakespeare:

• Love is not love that alters when alteration finds

• Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind; and therefore is winged Cupid painted blind

• All days are nights to see till I see thee, And nights bright days when dreams do show thee to me

You may prefer philosopher giants like Socrates, Aristotle and Thoreau. They too are often quoted when they describe the feeling of love.

• The hottest love has the coldest end –Socrates

• Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies –Aristotle

• There is no remedy to love but to love more –Thoreau

Religious icons such as St. Augustine and Mother Teresa have a lot to say about love.

• Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all –St. Augustine

• If you judge people, you have no time to love them –Mother Teresa

Love quotes can also be culled from novels, plays and poems like the one from Les Miserables: To love another person is to see the face of God.

Charles Dickens in one of his novels wrote, “Never close your lips to those whom you have opened your heart.” Meanwhile, Charlie Brown wrote, “Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love.” Here are some well-known quotes from writers:

• Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed: our love to others, and others’ love to us.” –Thomas Trahern.

• True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away.” – Alicia Barnhart

• “The Eskimos have 52 words for snow because it is so special to them; there ought to be as many for love!” – Margaret Atwood

• Love reckons hours for months, and days for years; and every little absence is an age.” –John Dryden.

Indeed, these quotes are beautiful to hear on Valentine’s Day. However, lovers should not forget that you could never go wrong with real words coming from the heart.

Walk in the Rain

I just received this in my email and had to share — is a beautiful story for Valentine’s week…

It was a busy
Morning, about 8:30, when an elderly

Gentleman in his 80’s arrived to have
Stitches removed from his thumb.

He said he was in a hurry as he had an
Appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital
Signs and had him take a seat,

Knowing it would be over an hour

Before someone
Would to able to see him.

I saw him looking at his watch and

Decided, since I
Was not busy with another patient,

I would evaluate his wound.

On exam, it was
Well healed, so I talked to one of the

Doctors, got the needed supplies to
Remove his sutures and redress his wounds

While taking care of
His wound, I asked him if he

Had another doctor’s appointment

This morning, as
He was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he

Needed to go to
The nursing home to eat breakfast

With his wife.

I inquired as to her Health.
He told me that
she had been there
For a while and that she

Was a victim of Alzheimer’s Disease.

As we
Talked, I asked if she would be

Upset if he was a bit late.
Replied that she no longer knew

Who he was, that she had not

Recognized him in
Five years now.
I was surprised, and asked him,

‘And you still go every
Morning, even though she

Doesn’t know who you are?’

He smiled as he
Patted my hand and said,
‘She doesn’t Know me, but I still know who she is.’
I had to hold back
Tears as he left, I had goose bumps

On my arm, and thought,

‘That is
The kind of love I want in my life.’

True love is
Neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an
Acceptance of all that is,

Has been, will be, and will not Be.

With all the jokes
And fun that are in e-mails,

Sometimes there is one that comes

Along=that has an
Important message..

This one I thought I could share with you.

Happiest people don’t necessarily

Have the best of everything;

They just make
The best of everything they have.

I hope you share this with someone you
Care about.

‘Life isn’t about=
How to survive the storm, how to dance

In the rain.’

We are all getting Older

Tomorrow may be our turn.