Ethical Porn for Dicks with Dr David Ley

Porn is a controversial topic with just about any audience and on this podcast Dr David Ley and I discuss aspects that you likely haven’t considered before. Dr Ley is a practicing clinical psychologist and an internationally-recognized expert on issues related to sexuality, pornography and mental health. The title of Dr Ley’s new book is definitely an attention grabber – Ethical Porn For Dicks A Man’s Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure. But it does get the point across and it has a broad range of topics that will definitely get a…

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How Does a Person Get Started in BDSM on Ready for Love Radio

NIna Hartley Ernest Green AVN Awards

In my last podcast – I had a lively conversation with Nina Hartley and Ernest Green. We discussed some of the misconceptions about BDSM and about the kind of things that are needed in a healthy and satisfying BDSM relationship or partnership. In this podcast – we talk about how a person can get started in BDSM if they are interested and want to see what its really all about. Would you like more details? How can you safely learn more? Are you required to “live the lifestyle” 24-7? Are…

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information. Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material? Below are full details about Oprah’s show. It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica….

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What is On Your List of Sexual Taboos

Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty – but I think this list is long enough to get things started – I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comments are welcome here or private message. Here is the beginning of the list – what do you…

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Male Sexual Fantasies

We should start with the fact that most men are turned on by what they see. On the other hand, women usually are aroused and stimulated by what they hear and feel and men want to see images and women that turn them on. However, I’m not saying that a gorgeous guy doesn’t turn on a woman 🙂 But I digress, let’s get back to the topic and dig deeper into the things that turn men on and details about their fantasies. Researchers Bruce J Ellis and Donald Symons found…

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Can You Watch Too Much Porn?

Is it possible to watch too much porn or to masturbate too much? Before you proceed, it is likely that some people will not agree with some of the things I mention here. But I work hard not to be biased or judgmental in my posts and to remain as open minded as possible. We know that sex is our second basic instinct – although it may seem like the first for some people 🙂  Since it is such an important instinct – its only natural that we think about sex…

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How Do You Define Erotica vs Pornography

There is much that is said about pornography, both positive and negative – mainly depending on who you talk to and their perspective. This post will not draw conclusions, just point out some elements that influence our opinions… Where do many people get their perspective on porn? The most common places are: Classmates/peers or Friends Mother, Father or Siblings Mentors, Teachers, Coaches or Counselors Clergy or your religion Media or TV Uncles, Aunts or Other relatives Anyone that you spend time with could be where you got your perspective about…

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