Certified in Love

Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into a relationship and especially considering marriage with a person that you want to change is an exercise in futility. Another one of my favorite ideas is that you should love…

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Oral Sex Certification from Loveology University

When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link to a video about men who expect oral sex and prefer their woman swallow but they refuse to kiss her after. That is a whole other topic — but that…

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information. Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material? Below are full details about Oprah’s show. It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica.…

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What is On Your List of Sexual Taboos

Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty – but I think this list is long enough to get things started – I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comments are welcome here or private message. Here is the beginning of the list – what do you…

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Flirting Body Language

Flirting is a favorite activity of many men and women. But how good are you at reading his or her body language when they are flirting? Their words may say “yes” but their body language says “no”. Flirting body language is complicated to understand and is often misinterpreted. Men flirt in different ways compared to women. How can you tell if someone is flirting with you? Does she like me? Is he interested in me? Read on for facts and tips to understand flirting signals. Flirting Men There are five…

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5 Tips For You to Get The Girl

Among the many emotions that man was destined to experience, it seems that love could be the best. No wonder many people want to find their own true love, hope to be happy and live a life that is full of contentment and satisfaction in spite of the many trials life has to offer. According to some surveys, most of the people want to marry some day, the desire to marry is why they are willing to go out on dates. In the U.S. alone, nearly 53% said they have…

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Ask About Relationship Coaches

Ken asks… What requirements are needed for a relationship coach? I really want to get in the field of relationship/personal coaching and was wondering if anyone knew if there was any special schooling needed, internship, supervised hours, licencing, certification, etc ffor this? How bout for business coaching? also, how much do relationship coaches typicall charge, and their typical salary? Do they work from home, see their clients face-to-face or over the phone? help! thanks, nikki answers: Many states have not yet developed parameters, requirements, licenses, etc. for coaching, but you…

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Maintain or Improve Love For Yourself in Heartbreak and Crisis – Part Two

For my initial thoughts about maintaining self-love during heartbreak and a crisis, you can find the introduction in this post — http://lovecoachjourney.com/1462/maintain-improve-love-yourself/ Remove myself from the negativity that is causing me grief. This is not always possible to do for extended periods of time as we may live or work with the cause of our heartache. But most of us can find a few moments each day to either be alone or with people who lift us up. After all most of us would rather be alone than with people…

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Maintain or Improve Love For Yourself in Heartbreak and Crisis – Part One

When we are suffering a heartache, regardless of what has caused it, our minds tend to be ruled by our heart. Although we may have experienced many emotional crises in our life, each new crisis feels like the first time as each new heartache is brand new to us, we have not done this one before, it is a first. Emotions we never experienced before race through our bodies making us weak and vulnerable. We feel as if we will not make it through the day let alone the next…

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