Master the Perfect Kiss and Give Your Partner a Great Gift

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For many years, guys and gals growing up getting their sex cues from Hollywood romances didn’t have a clue about how to kiss. That changed with more realistic kisses coming to the movies, but now the pendulum has gone beyond that point with most movie kisses looking like the two combatants are consuming each other for lunch.

This has caused more than a few folks to fail to understand how a kiss should work, and what methods might be employed to arouse the ardor in a lover with a simple kiss.

Unlike today’s movies, you shouldn’t jump into your lover’s mouth like a high-speed chase through a tunnel. Instead, build her anticipation by kissing all around her face. Begin your kiss slowly and gently with emotion and sensitivity.

First, kiss without using your tongue, slightly open mouthed, with sweet breath. Only after this initial modest kiss should you start to get serious, and only when your lover indicates that she’s ready for more (usually by using her tongue or by opening her mouth more widely to invite your tongue in).

From this point, there are a variety of ways you can continue this interplay:

  • Take your lover’s bottom lip between the two of yours and suck gently.
  • Trace the outline of your lover’s lips with the tip of your tongue.
  • While kissing, lick you lover’s teeth with your tongue.
  • To increase sexual excitement, make your kiss wet.
  • Wrap your lips around your lover’s tongue and suck passionately.
  • Use hot or cold liquids to create erotic sensations.
  • Kissing her eyelids and ears.

The key to success in all this is to go slowly, and to keep things modest especially with the first few kisses. Be sure to follow your lover’s kissing techniques and emulate them. Little by little the two of you will learn what works best.

Then put your knowledge to good use, bringing her slowly closer to consummating your encounter.

Certified in Love

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Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into a relationship and especially considering marriage with a person that you want to change is an exercise in futility. Another one of my favorite ideas is that you should love a person – faults and all. We all have “faults” and shortcomings etc – but they are all a part of who we are as a person.

I’ve always said that the people I loved the most have always been friends first and often friends after we broke up – although not right after we broke up 🙂 That leads into the main ingredients of love – they include:

  1. Friendship
  2. Trust
  3. Respect
  4. Passion
  5. Communication

Something I’ve also said many times is that it is hard to love someone else and to accept their love – when you don’t love yourself. That isn’t a selfish love – but a healthy self love.

Letting go of the past is another important element of a healthy loving relationship. In order to enter into a new relationship — we have to let go of the past. We need to be brutally honest with ourselves to determine why a relationship didn’t work out – and then look for any patterns in past relationships.

There are six types of love – do you know the names and what each means? Do you know that some combinations are healthy and some are disastrous? This course outlines the full description of each type of love, which kinds of love are a good match and which ones are not — it gives new meaning to the idea that just being “in love” is enough to make a good relationship.

These are some sections in Loveology University’s Course on Love –

  • Definition of Love
  • Ingredients of Love
  • Letting Go Of The Past
  • Rejection
  • Forgiveness
  • Finding Everlasting Love
  • Flirting
  • Communicating Love
  • Types of Love
  • Intimacy + Passion
  • Love vs. Lust
  • Love Around the House
  • How To Love A Woman
  • How To Love A Man
  • Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn the 5 Ingredients of Love
  • You want to Find and Keep Everlasting Love
  • You want to Know How to Love A Woman versus a Man
  • You want to Know the Difference Between Love and Lust

Welcome to Loveology University’s Love Certification Course. Who else offers a certification on a course as valuable as love? In this course you’ll learn about the history of love, the different kinds of love and how to get the love you need. From self-love, romantic love to passionate love, this course offers groundbreaking techniques to make your life a loving one. You’ll learn about the 5 essential ingredients to finding love, 12 keys to keeping love, how to love a woman verses how to love a man and some fascinating statistics on love around the world. So if you want more love in your life, start by becoming certified in LU’s course on love.

For more information, click here.

Oral Sex Certification from Loveology University

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When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link to a video about men who expect oral sex and prefer their woman swallow but they refuse to kiss her after. That is a whole other topic — but that was fresh on my mind when this host told me that. So, I gave him a very hard time about his behavior and his refusal to please his wife orally. She was in the background and it seemed that she appreciated me taking up for her 🙂

Do you want to understand more about oral sex? Do you want to learn how to give mind blowing oral sex? Does your partner want more oral sex, but you’re not confident about your skills? Then you need this study at home course from Loveology University. You will not believe the details that are included.   The course covers male and female oral sex details, some history of oral sex, and much more.


These are some of the topics in the Oral Sex Course –

  • Webster’s Definition of Oral Sex, Cunnilingus & Fellatio
  • What Oral Sex Is  & What Oral Sex Is Not
  • Slang Words – Cunnilingus, Vagina, Fellatio & Penis
  • Oral Sex Myths
  • Oral Sex and Women  & Oral Sex and Men
  • Getting Your Lover to Go Down
  • How to Put a Condom on With Your Mouth
  • Techniques for His Pleasure  & Techniques for Her Pleasure
  • Tongue Workout
  • Oral Sex Positions  – Male with Female, Female with Female & Male with Male
  • Sexy Oral Games
  • Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • Oral Sex and Your Health
  • Safer Oral Sex  & Oral Sex Concerns

There is information about to clear up common myths and misconceptions about oral sex. Much detail is included about the various body parts in the genital area – their name, their location and their functions.  And of course there are plenty of tips, techniques and much more – including intructions on how to put a condom on with the mouth.

This is the official listing for the course –

This Course Is For You If:

  • You want to Learn Dozens of New Oral Sex Techniques
  • You want to Avoid Common Oral Sex Mistakes
  • You want to Know How to Get Your Lover to Go Down on You
  • You want to Discover Advanced Oral Sex Positions

Welcome to Loveology University’s Oral Sex Certification Course. Inside you will learn all the techniques on the art of going down on a man and a woman. This course is sure to expand your knowledge on how, where, when and why to give or receive oral sex. Included are tips on staying safe while having fun such as putting a condom on with your mouth. There are dozens of different styles of doing the act itself, unique positions to enhance oral pleasure, even oral sex games to make your lovemaking an unforgettable experience so you both can enjoy all that you have learned from this mouth watering course!

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

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Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information.

Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material?

Below are full details about Oprah’s show.

It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica. Plus,  very well known porn star and entrepreneur, Jenna Jameson was a guest. Warning: This content is intended for adult audiences only.

Investigating Porn and Erotica –Lisa Ling reports on the adult film industry. Why more women are using pornography.
The World’s Most Famous Porn Star – Jenna Jameson shares the secret to her success and how she changed the industry.
Beginner’s Guide to Erotica – Owners of an erotica boutique reveal the five things you need to start exploring your sensual side.

Full details –

Are you ready to learn more about sex, loves and relationships from an expert in the field? Click here.

Welcome to the Loveology University ®
If you are ready for a Love Changing experience

At Loveology University we are dedicated to providing the most accurate and innovative educational courses to appeal to a broad audience by offering a friendly environment where you can choose from a wide selection of courses for as little as $9.95 all the way up to $1,999.95 (full love coach certification) and learn at your own pace. All of our courses come in digital formats including e-books, audios, videos and slide shows for easy learning.

We guarantee that all of our courses are of the highest quality and hope that you will be completely satisfied with your new found knowledge. We believe that Loveology University is your community for information on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality, which means that we’ll do everything in our power to ensure that you not only receive the very best in education, but that you’ll enjoy yourself while doing so. To that end, we’ve enhanced your online experience with plenty of FREE material that includes:

  • The LU Library where you can read dozens of articles and the most asked questions from singles and couples.
  • Loveology TV (LUTV) and where you can watch 10 webisodes of love tips from students at Loveology University.
  • Sex Match where you can listen to 10 exciting rounds between LU Founder Dr. Ava Cadell and Renowned Urologist Dr. Jennifer Berman.
  • Research and Quizzes will educate and entertain you and they are all in the FREE ACCESS area of LU.

Part of our mission at Loveology University is to increase worldwide education and awareness on love, relationships, romance, intimacy and sexuality for adults of all ages over 18, genders, cultures, educational backgrounds and sexual orientations to enjoy and enrich their love lives, whether single or in a relationship.

Loveology University Course Catalog

Loveology University offers three Certified Long- Term Courses designed for Life Coaches, Consultants, Home Party Planners, Adult Store Owners and Entrepreneurs that want to start their own practice as a Love Coach:

  • Certified Love Coach Program (Loveologist Course)
  • Certified Master Sexpert Program
  • Certified Romantic Program

Loveology University offers dozens of Individual Courses for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of Educational Adult Videos for Singles & Couples.
Loveology University offers dozens of e-Books and Audio courses

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Ask a Relationship Coach About Love Poems

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Chris asks…

love poems?

my anniversary with my girlfriend in on the 10th of this month. i wanna do something sweet for her and i thought a love poem would be great, but i dont know what to write or what to say. can anone help me out with a good love poem, or direct me to a site that has good love poems?

nikki answers:

This is a favorite poem by EE Cummings

I carry your heart with me
(I carry it in my heart)
I am never without it
(anywhere I go you go, my dear; and whatever is done
by only me is your doing, my darling)
I fear not fate
(For you are my fate, my sweet)
I want no world
(for beautiful you are my world, my true)
and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant
and whatever a sun will always sing is you

Here is the deepest secret nobody knows
(here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud
and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which grows
higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)
and this is the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart

I carry your heart (I carry it in my heart)

William asks…

Love Poems?

Does anyone know any short but sweet love poems that i could give to the girl that i like?

nikki answers:

Definitely, take out a pen and paper and dig into your heart and share what you feel.. even if it doesn’t rhyme and fit the “poem” mold, that is the best poem that you can give her.

Thomas asks…

Love poems?

I want to write a love poem to show my boyfriend how much I love him, but I’m not a good writer, where are good website for love poems, and do you know any?Thanks, I know this might not be in the right place, but I need help, I want him to know I really love him, Thanks and have a nice day

nikki answers:

This is a poem I read that may be good for you or feel free to spend a little time to personalize it

I think I have a problem
I think I lost my heart
I can’t find it any where its
Like I’m searching through
The dark I was beginning to panic
Wondering what to do then I
Remember my heart belong to you!!!

I love you

Sandy asks…

love Poems?

I have a boyfriend, but i’ve been talking 2 another guy for while and he told me that he is falling in love with me, is there a poem or song to tell him that i have a boyfriend and nothing can happen between us, i want 2 tell him nicely without breaking his heart Please help i don’t know what else to do

nikki answers:

I would talk to him face to face or write a short note to say what’s in your heart… that’s what I always do.

Its always best to be open and honest with people you care about.

Carol asks…

How to compare and contrast two love poems?

I need to compare and contrast the poems first love by john clare and ballad by anon.I have no idea where to start as i have never studied poetry before. My essay has to be between 200 – 500 words long. If anyone has any advice i would be really grateful.

nikki answers:

First read them carefully. Figure out what you think the author is talking about.

Keep in mind that no one can say you are interpreting the poem wrong.

Start by comparing main elements of the poems. Are they both about woman/man love, parent to a child love. etc.

Compare the way they describe their beloved. Is the love returned to the author , or is it unrequited? Is the author, happy or sad? Make each point and by sure to use lots of examples from the poems themselves.

That should give you at least 200 quickly. You can also jot down things that are obviously different and similar and arrange your paragraphs accordingly.

good luck

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