Certified in Love

Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into a relationship and especially considering marriage with a person that you want to change is an exercise in futility. Another one of my favorite ideas is that you should love…

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Oral Sex Certification from Loveology University

When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link to a video about men who expect oral sex and prefer their woman swallow but they refuse to kiss her after. That is a whole other topic — but that…

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Why Do Millions of Women Enjoy Erotica

Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information. Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, reading and watching erotic material? Below are full details about Oprah’s show. It’s a multibillion dollar industry. Lisa Ling reports on why millions of awomen are using porn and erotica.…

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What is On Your List of Sexual Taboos

Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty – but I think this list is long enough to get things started – I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comments are welcome here or private message. Here is the beginning of the list – what do you…

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