How Does a Person Get Started in BDSM on Ready for Love Radio

NIna Hartley Ernest Green AVN Awards

In my last podcast – I had a lively conversation with Nina Hartley and Ernest Green. We discussed some of the misconceptions about BDSM and about the kind of things that are needed in a healthy and satisfying BDSM relationship or partnership. In this podcast – we talk about how a person can get started in BDSM if they are interested and want to see what its really all about. Would you like more details? How can you safely learn more? Are you required to “live the lifestyle” 24-7? Are…

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Conversation with Ernest Green and Nina Hartley About BDSM and 50 Shades of Grey

Nina Hartley

The 50 Shades of Grey movie was released February 13, 2015. After the blockbuster sales of the book series – people are anxious to see the movie. But there are some things that are being discussed – Are the interactions between the main characters a realistic interpretation of a BDSM relationship? If not, what does it represent? How would a person with real experience in the community describe BDSM? Do you have a real idea of what a BDSM relationship involves? Is consent an important part of BDSM and the Kink…

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Ernest Greene Author of Master of O on Ready for Love Radio

Are you one of the millions of people who read and enjoyed 50 Shades of Grey? If the topic is of interest to you or if you are just curious, you should tune into Ready for Love Radio tonight. Long before 50 Shades of Grey was released, there was the Story of O. It is the story of a submissive partner in a power exchange relationship – she shares her story from her point of view. Several decades later, 9 1/2 Weeks was released and it also told the story…

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What is On Your List of Sexual Taboos

Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty – but I think this list is long enough to get things started – I’d love to hear your thoughts. Comments are welcome here or private message. Here is the beginning of the list – what do you…

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