Phone Sex – Why?

Have you noticed there are a decent number of people on the internet who are looking for someone to chat with online, on the phone or on webcams. There are also plenty of people who engage in various forms of phone and cyber-sex. But its not just a playful way to flirt with a stranger, there can be great benefits from phone sex for people in a long term relationship.

Define Phone Sex – Personal and Business

“Phone sex is a type of virtual sex that refers to sexually explicit conversation between two or more persons via telephone, especially when at least one of the participants masturbates or engages in sexual fantasy. Phone sex conversation may take many forms, including (but not limited to): guided, sexual sounds, narrated, and enacted suggestions; sexual anecdotes and confessions; candid expression of sexual feelings or love; discussion of very personal and sensitive sexual topics; or just two people listening to each other masturbate.

Phone sex exists both in the context of intimate relationships (e.g., among distanced lovers), and as a commercial transaction between a paying customer and a paid professional.” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phone_sex)

Phone sex does not involve physical contact between the participants. You may wonder what sort of people participate in cyber-sex and phone sex?

  • Single men and women
  • Married men and women
  • People who want to reach out to another person – even anonymously
  • People in long distance relationship
  • People who are separated by travel

People in a relationship may choose to engage in phone sex when they are separated by long distance and physical intimacy isn’t possible. There are also single or married people who want a connection to someone else. Some of these people would masturbate alone, but may choose to masturbate with another person – separated by the phone or internet. The people involved in the call do not have physical contact with one another, they may:

  • use webcams to watch each other – clothed or nude
  • one or both participants may masturbate during the call or chat
  • one or both participants may talk about things they would like to do together
  • one or both participants may talk about what they are doing to themselves while they are on the call or chat
  • the conversation or chat can often lead to orgasm for one or both participants

These are some of the more common possibilities – what options would you add to the list?

I highly recommend this for couples who are away from each other, but want to maintain intimacy while you’re apart. You may think this wouldn’t be enjoyable or this wouldn’t make you horny. Here is a scenario – it has been a long day at work and you want to spend some time together, but can’t because he’s out of town. So, you decide to give him a call. During this call, the conversation could turn to the things you enjoy doing together. I admit that it can be boring depending on what you say.

On the other hand, let’s try something more creative and set the mood. You and your partner are each in a private space, maybe sitting on a comfortable chair or on your bed. As you begin to talk, the conversation gets hotter as you share some of the sexy things you enjoy. While he’s talking, you begin to unbutton your shirt and maybe slip off your shorts. Leaning back, you begin to run your hands over your body, with your eyes closed and thinking about him doing those things to you. This scenario can be very hot and enjoyable for both of you. Imagine you are massaging your clitoris and playing with your vibrator and/or dildo. You’re getting hotter while you watch him stroke his penis and you tell him how you want to take him in your hand and wrap your lips around him. As you explain in a sexy voice how you want to massage his balls while you take him into your hot, wet mouth and then you hear him moan. So, are you horny yet….

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