Sex Toy Review – Jelly Anal Rod (Pipedream Products)

People may want to keep it to themselves, but let’s be honest — anal play is of interest to a lot of people. Even if they are just curious, there are a lot of people searching for information about anal play and there are untold numbers of anal toys. Hold on to your hat – there are anal toys for women and men. That’s right – there are a good number of men who are interested in anal play – a good number of these men are straight. Anal play…

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Where Is My Soul Mate? by Dyan Garris (Guest Post)

Everyone wants their soul mate, right? At least it’s good in theory. What we really want is love. We want to give and receive love.  It seems like such a simple thing – meet someone, fall in love, and live happily ever after.  Yet we so often find relationships to be very challenging and confusing.  Let’s explore some things about soul mates. The term soul mate is often misunderstood.  We may have many soul mates that are incarnated at the same time we are, not just that one perfect person…

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Guest Post by Dr Grace – Sex During Menstruation

Sex during menstruation to some is unthinkable and down right disgusting, but there are people men or women who actually enjoy it. There are women, who truly, get very eagerly aroused. In that time of the month, some women are constantly horny and easily respond to erotic stimulation. For some women, that is the best time to achieve their first orgasm, or the best and most intense orgasms, because every thing is already sensitive, engorged and swollen. At first you may feel discomfort, but as you relax, more and more,…

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What is Polyamory?

We hear terms like polyamory, polygamy, open relationships and many other phrases, but do you really understand what they are and the differences? First, to clea up some misconceptions. Cheating, swinging and polygamy are all different from polyamory – these are defined below. Cheating (blatant withholding of sexual emotional involvement with others) Swinging (purely recreational sex without an emotional sharing/connection) Polygamy (legal, religious and economic prescriptions for multiple partner marriage) What is polyamory? Here are a few simple descriptions… Responsible/ethical/honest non-monogamy A deep, emotional, sometimes physical relationship with more than…

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Are You Happy in Your Relationship

You may be wondering – what would you discuss with a love coach or a relationship coach? This coach is a person that helps you with a variety of areas of your personal development. They help you set and reach goals in several areas of your life, including: Dating Love Romance Relationships Intimacy Sexuality When someone asks you how your relationship is – what do you say? Do you smile when you say, “Its great”? Do you try not to grit your teeth when you say, “Its fine”? Or, do…

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Sex in the land of Kama Sutra by Shobhan Bantwal, Author of the Unexpected Son

Sex in the land of Kama Sutra By Shobhan Bantwal – author of THE UNEXPECTED SON I have no idea when Indian culture turned prudish, but the India I know has always been tight-lipped about sex and anything to do with the man-woman relationship. The belief is that the British brought their Victorian ideas of extreme modesty when they occupied what used to be a free-thinking India. Now, most Indians don’t even mention the word “sex” if they can help it—except to mean gender. When my fellow Indians learn that…

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Adult Movies Designed to Appeal to Women

Many people enjoy adult movies and plenty of other people do not enjoy adult movies. If you do enjoy adult content or if you’re curious about it – this post will be of interest to you. Women who enjoy graphic romance novels are likely to enjoy this post as well. Good Porn by Erika Lust We all know that the majority of porn is watched by men. However, more and more women are watching porn – and there are very different attitudes between men and women when it comes to…

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Book Review – Good Porn by Erika Lust

Good Porn by Erika Lust We all know that the majority of porn is watched by men. However, more and more women are watching porn – and I noticed long ago that there are very different attitudes between men and women when it comes to renting, buying, and watching porn. About 15 years ago I managed a video store that rented mainstream movies and also had a section of adult movies. I learned which customers rented each type of movie – but I also noticed something interesting. Many of the…

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Not Your Parents KY

At times when you are getting ready to have sex – you realize that you want or need a little more moisture and over the years, many people used KY Jelly or something similar. There are also couples who avoid sex because of dryness. This can be for a variety of reasons, but you shouldn’t let that stop you from enjoying an active and satisfying sex life. This is the perfect time for Moist — such a great name for a lubricant. Many lubes have a variety of ingredients that…

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Where Do People Like to Be Kissed

I did an informal poll to see where people in my network – like to be kissed. I’m working on a post with all kinds of suggestions — but here are what my friends had to say — Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Toes 3% Kissing, Licking the Inner Thighs 4% Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Elbow 4% Kissing the Knee and Behind the Knee 4% Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Fingers 4% Kissing, Licking & Sucking the Ears, the Earlobes and Around the Ears 5% Kissing the Wrist 5%…

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