Be the Strong Man a Woman Wants on Ready for Love Radio

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What do women want?

We tackle that age old question on Ready for Love RadioBeing the Strong Man a Woman Wants

  • Do women want a bad boy?
  • Do women want a nice guy?
  • Do women want to “rule the roost”?
  • Or – do they want a strong man who will take the lead, and be someone she can love and respect?

You will have to listen in to see what author, Elliott Katz has to say on the topic. Stick around to the end, and I’ll share the first couple 8-10 pages of the book with you….

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Elliott KatzAbout Elliott Katz –

Elliott Katz is a professional speechwriter in Toronto and the author of seven nonfiction books.

After the end of a relationship, Elliott Katz sought to learn about being a man in a relationship. He found books on marriage and relationships said little to him. He found powerful timeless insights in the lessons that fathers and other older male role models taught younger men. People started seeking his advice and would say, “Why didn’t someone tell me this before?”

Moving beyond the trendy ideas about a man’s role – that just don’t seem to work – Elliott Katz shares insights on being a man that have withstood the test of time. Interestingly, these insights are the traits that he heard many women complain were lacking in men today – showing leadership, making decisions and taking responsibility.

From Adventurer Alone in Alaska to Cosmo Bachelor on Ready for Love Radio

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On this podcast I am going to introduce you to an adventurer and scientist who spent 18 months alone in Alaska. We talk about his adventure in the wilds of Alaska and the wild adventures he found when he got back to civilization… This is the message he sent to entice me to have him as a guest on Ready for Love Radio

While living on a wilderness island in the Inside Passage of Alaska for years in isolation, studying
Michael-Modzelewski the wildlife (no female companionship), I wrote my first book, INSIDE PASSAGE: LIVING WITH BALD EAGLES, KILLER WHALES AND KWAKIUTL INDIANS. It was published by HarperCollins in NYC. Unbeknownst to me, Cosmopolitan Magazine, the best-selling women’s magazine in the world (in 100 countries; translated into 87 languages) chose me as one of their “Bachelors of The Month” and eventually “Man of The Year.” At the same time, AlaskaMen Magazine made me their centerfold story (I got a staple in my navel but got to keep my parka on : ) I went from famine to feast — from no dates in the Alaska wilderness to 5,000 letters from women around the world. I dated many, and that is how I eventually met my wife. It’s Everyman’s Fantasy with a Happy Ending.

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To get a bit of a preview – check out this video from an interview he did and find out what happened after he got all those letters….

10 Reasons to Kiss Your Partner….

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Ten Reasons to Kiss Your Mate  

  1. Kissing lowers stress.
  2. Kissing burns calories.
  3. Kissing helps you look younger.
  4. Kissing can lift your spirits.
  5. Kissing is meditative.
  6. Kissing strengthens your marriage.
  7. Kissing builds desire.
  8. Kissing releases Oxytocin
  9. Kissing is free.
  10. 10. Kissing increases love and passion in your marriage.

Senior Citizens Get Health Benefits From Active Sex Life

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An active sex life into your 60’s and beyond can benefit your overall health. There are plenty of statistics which show this can encourage a person to live a very healthy lifestyle. For many people, they will be more concerned about their overall appearance and they eat better and exercise more.

Many individuals engaging in sex when they are over 60 are also more concerned with their overall health. This means they are willing to keep their appointments for annual check ups. They also do what the doctor recommends in regards to taking medications and to making changes to their daily habits.

The topic has become more of an issue in our society due to people living longer than ever before. For many people, life doesn’t end when they retire as it is only beginning. They can pursue new interests and they can enjoy having an active sex life. For most people at this age and older, there is no reason not to continue experimenting with sex and having a great time.

It can be a time to get to know your body in new ways. You may find sex is different at this age though. It may not occur as often and it may not last as long from start to finish. Yet there are still plenty of ways to please your partner and to make the most of it. It is always good to communicate what makes you feel good to your partner so you get all you can out of your sexual experiences.

Having a healthy lifestyle is very important for people of any age. As you get older it becomes even more important. You can make sure sexual activity continues to be a great part of life at any age. It is great to eliminate the use of tobacco and alcohol from your lifestyle. You should also eat right, get plenty of rest, and exercise regularly.

Many people in their 60’s will tell you that continuing to have sex makes them feel younger. This carries over into many other aspects of their life as well. They feel better physically and mentally. They also find they are able to maintain a very healthy and intimate relationship with that special person in their life.

In our society, it has become more socially acceptable for people to have active sex lives later in life. In the past it was deemed gross or even out of line for people of such age to think about sex. So, they kept their thoughts and activities private. Today they are able to explore and share without feeling guilty or feeling like they are being judged.

It is believed that a positive attitude about sex and realizing it is natural to want to continue having sex when you are older plays a vital role in your life. The people who don’t question their desire for sexual activity into their 60’s can relax and enjoy it. They won’t be inhibited by their age or what is going on around them.

Maintain Your Sex Life as You Age

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Many people begin to worry about how to maintain their sex drive over 60. This can vary depending on the sex life they have had earlier in life. However, some people and especially women may feel more sexually free and enjoy sex more after menopause.

Sex is a satisfying part of most couple’s lifestyle and not something they want to lose. It is normal for a person’s sex drive to diminish as they get older. Specifically, those over 60 may find it is harder to get into the mood or to get their body to respond physically the way they want it to. Let’s share some tips that can help you and your partner – or feel free to share with friends or family who can benefit.

There are things you can do to help maintain your sex drive as you get older. Living a healthy lifestyle is going to have a significant impact for you so don’t blow it off. What you choose to do today is going to affect your health and your level of sexual desire as you get older.

Eating a well balanced diet is something you should incorporate into your life. If you aren’t doing it now, then start to make some small changes. As time goes on you will adjust to these changes and they will become second nature to you. Consuming too much caffeine can be a problem. If you aren’t getting all the vitamins and nutrients you need from food, you should take a quality supplement.

Make sure you take the time to exercise at least 30 minutes each day as well. Walking is very common for older individuals – it is low impact but very good for the body. Get a companion such as a friend or a dog that you can walk with each day. Some malls and other locations have indoor walking clubs which are perfect when the weather turns cold.

Maintaining a healthy weight is very important for your sex drive. The combination of a good diet with plenty of exercise will help you in this area. It also helps you feel great about how you look. Too many people are inhibited about sex as their body has changed from what it once was. That is going to be a fact of life for all of us.

Being happy with your body is important. Too many people start to notice all the small flaws as they get older. They will see every line and wrinkle on their body so they aren’t comfortable during sex. They don’t have self confidence that they are still desirable. They aren’t able to let go and enjoy what is taking place because they are too focused on such details.

Reducing the amount of stress in your life is important at all ages, but especially as you get older too. The toll it can take on both your body and your mind is more than most of us realize. Most people cannot be worry free as they get older. If your finances or relationships aren’t in the best shape, it can be hard to get past. But, do your best to reduce as much stress from your life as you can. It will help you in many ways and it will certainly help your sex drive because you won’t be preoccupied with other things.

If you are healthy as you get older, you will find it easier to maintain your sex drive and your sex life. Both men and women have the ability to be turned on sexually until a very late age in life. Men and women both have the ability to continue having orgasms into those later years as well. It all comes down to how fit a person is physically and mentally.

Age is merely a number though as anyone over 60 can tell you. Many of them continue to enjoy a sex life that is as wonderful as people in their 40s. It is something you can strive for in your own life as well. Make sure you are making healthy choices today so you won’t have too many issues that reduce your sex drive as you get older.

Guest Post – Does ALL sex have to include intercourse…?

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That’s a very good question. First we have to define what ‘intercourse’ is. To most people ‘intercourse’ involves the physical act of procreation. Literally; ‘intercourse’ actually means any type of conversation. Conversation is an important part of any physical contact and should be practiced before; during and after sex.

So, the question really becomes; when does one cross the line where conversation AKA foreplay becomes sex (procreation)?

In these times; people are having sex but no intercourse. They are simply not talking to each other. I have personally seen examples of people in the physical act with no knowledge of the other’s wants or desires.

For me personally; I want to know who I am having sex with. I need to have a spiritual, sexual, intellectual and physical relationship long before sex. This doesn’t fit in today’s standards of ‘Wham, bam, what was your name ma’am?’ that seems prevalent.

For me intercourse begins when we talk. Get to know something about each other. I remember I was walking with a friend and there was a beautiful woman walking towards us. As she passed; he remarked; “Man! I would so totally tap that!”

I was a bit offended by his attitude. I said to him. “Let’s say she gives you a shot! You got to her place and you have the best sex you ever had with her.”

He almost began to salivate like Pavlov’s dog. “You hit that and you hit it again and again.”

He nodded and said: “Yeah boy!”

I paused and asked: “Then what?”

He replied in a confused state. “What?”

“You hit it! You satisfied your desires and maybe hers… now what?”


“Who is she? What does she want out of life? What does she want to really share with you?”

He was dumbfounded. He didn’t understand that I wanted him to truly understand intercourse and that ‘sex’ was meaningless without it.

Back to me… Now that I know who you are; I have to find out what you like; what you’re willing or unwilling to do. I have to find your pleasure zones. I have to find your erotic points. I have to stimulate your mind so that you may give of yourself to me freely and completely! (NOW we’re talking!)

This is where the touching begins; the massages; the probing with tongues and hands; bodies rubbing and exploring each other. Then and only when these point of ‘conversation’ are covered does the sex act begins. But that doesn’t end the intercourse. Continue to talk, touch, feel each other’s presence and desires and do whatever you have to do to fulfill their needs. Then you can find satisfaction in each other’s company.

Some people who are reading this are thinking; ‘That’s a long road to travel just to get laid!” Well if that’s your only destination; you’re right. But right now there is a beautiful, intelligent, sexual woman reading this; who wants to meet me; have a chat over a glass of wine and then make me breakfast in the morning and if all works out well; we will have more encounters that start and end the same way!

You can have all the sex you want. I’ll take intercourse any day!

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10 Smart Things Men Can Do to Turn Women On

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Are you a guy who’s tired of the buff guys getting the girl? Are you totally out of your comfort zone at the gym? It can be pretty intimating in there. So – what’s a nice guy who’s reasonably cute, to do to get a girl’s attention?

I found some tips that just might help you. These are all things you can do and not one requires lifting weights or showering at the gym… but you can if you want :)

These are from an article titled

Guys: 10 Sexy Smart Things You Do That Turn Us On

Here are the tips –

1. Have a deep, passionate interest in something.

2. Read — of your own accord!

3. Use a rich (but not pretentious) vocabulary.

4. Have an opinion on worldly issues.

5. Know what your dreams are … and chase after them.

6. Talk to me for hours about any topic under the sun.

7. Have not only booksmart intelligence, but emotional intelligence.

8. Have your sh*t together.

9. Have personal taste.

10. Teach me something new every day — even without even meaning to. –

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9 Top Female Fantasies

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I found a list of the top 9 female sex fantasies – and of course I had to share them. Take a look and let me know what you think. I’m going to share the main fantasies and at the bottom of the page, click the link to read the full article —

The fantasy headers are from Gabrielle Moore – the comments are from me :)

1. Her Dominating You

Maybe your woman wants to dominate you – its awesome to be wanted or even craved by our special someone. I have also been told by many men that they like for their partner to take the initiative – let you partner know that you WANT them… and then show them just how much.

2. You Dominating Her

On the other hand, maybe your lady wants you to dominate her. She may work and manage the house and care for the kids and many other things. Some of us get tired of being in charge all the time :) So its nice to not have to take charge for a change. But let me offer a suggestion – even when you’re “in charge” listen to her comments and sighs and watch her reactions to see what she is enjoying and what you may want to do differently. If you’re giving her oral sex or giving her a massage – watch her reactions and listen for her reactions. If you aren’t getting the reactions you want, switch things up or ask her to show you what you wants… and then follow her lead.

3. Hot For Teacher

Role playing can be a lot of fun when both partners are fully engaged. Does she fantasize about a hot teacher she had in school or maybe a well built and appealing fireman? There are unlimited options – watch her reactions when you’re watching TV, or a movie or are in public. What gets her attention?

4. Stranger Danger

Guys I might shock you with this, but women think about having a hot encounter with a stranger. Likely she wouldn’t actually do it, but that doesn’t mean she can’t think about it. That means, this fantasy opens up another role playing option for you and your partner.

5. Three’s Company Too

I think most people know what many men fantasize about a threesome with 2 women. Well, there are more women female-sex-fantasies-woman-in-chargethan you may imagine, that fantasize about the same thing. That doesn’t mean she doesn’t like men, it just means she may be curious to see what its like to be with a woman in some ways and she may want to see how you interact with another woman and herself.

6. Three’s Company Too (Part 2)

The other side of the threesome idea is to be with two men and this is something many women think about. That doesn’t necessarily mean she wants to see her man get physically involved with another man – maybe she just wants her partner and another man to spoil her rotten. Maybe she wants to try double penetration or a number of other combinations.

7. She likes to watch…

Some women enjoy seeing their man masturbating – maybe she sneaks a peak at him in the shower. Could be anywhere, but if you want to watch, tell him. In combination with fantasy #8 – you could engage in mutual masturbation. Maybe you watch one another pleasuring yourselves – watch how your partner pleasures themselves, you will get valuable insights into what feels good to them. Watching each other can also evolve into pleasing each other with your hands, your mouths, or any other parts of your bodies —–

8. She likes to be watched

Do you like to be watched? I’ve spoken to many men who want to or enjoy watching a woman pleasuring herself. And a major perk to having him watch is that he’ll be anxious to join you. If you get the opportunity to let your partner watch, keep in mind that its a chance to show him what you like too.

9. Dancing Queen – 

I have no sense of rhythm when it comes to dancing, but I’d love to have a special someone dance for me…..

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Health and Relationship Benefits of Sex Toys

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I know that header may be controversial and may upset some people – but there are health and relationship benefits to using sex toys alone or with your partner. So – true to the mission of Ready for Love Radio – we’re going to talk about it.

I’m Nikki Leigh, a Love and Relationship Coach and the host of Ready for Love Radio. When I decided to do this show – there was only one possible guest – Tamara P Bell. This week my guest is also a Love Coach and a Pleasure Party Planner and owner of Home Pleasure Party Plan Assoc (HPPPA) .

We will talk about –

  • The various types of toys for men, women and couples
  • The kinds of health issues that can be helped with sex toys
  • How sex toys can be beneficial to your relationship
  • Ways to introduce toys to your partner
  • Tips on things to avoid when talking with your partner
  • Are men really intimidated by sex toys
  • Does your partner’s knowledge and approval of your sex toy use make a difference in how much they help you
  • We have these answers and much more.

This podcast does have adult content – parents are cautioned and people who do not want to hear sexual content are also cautioned.

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About Tamara P Bell

Tamara has been in business over 20 years, providing outstanding business opportunities and exceptional customer service. This business was designed by women for women, men & couples. We have a Certified Loveologist ®, Love Coach & Master Sexpert on our team. We are also a member of the Home Pleasure Party Plan Association.

Our mission is: “To provide the BEST education on enhancing relationships, the proper usage of adult products & offer a great business opportunity to the future entrepreneur.”

We were established as a home party company in Sacramento, CA, based on the goal of women, men & couples being able to buy adult material confidentially and comfortably. Home parties offer everyone a comfortable place to purchase adult novelties, get educated and to have fun. Our home parties are a girl’s night out, couples get together and all male shopping sprees.

We emphasize education and supplying the customers with creative ideas to enhance intimacy. Our products are so good that the customers keep reordering. They also keep telling their friends. We will ship products all over the United States. Hopefully you will host a show and tell a friend….

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Ready for Love Interview with a Modern Courtesan

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Join me for an interesting interview with a “modern courtesan”. I discovered her on Facebook on the page where she’s sharing advance excerpts from the book she’s writing. The excerpts grabbed my attention – so naturally, I had to invite her to be a guest on my Ready for Love podcast.

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We talk about

  • what initially drew her interest in being an escort
  • how she made the change from being an accountant, to being an escort
  • why does she call being an escort, a relationship style
  • find out the connection between meditation and being an escort
  • how does her psychology education help her be a better escort
  • why does she feel wealthy people have a tougher time in relationships
  • and
  • what could be some reasons why intimacy may be missing from your relationship

I’ll let Jacqui introduce herself and tell you a bit about what she does —

My name is Jacqui Morris and my business is Modern Courtesan

This is her bio –

Jacqui Morris has been following her unique spiritual calling to provide escort services since 1997. Jacqui-Morris-Modern-Courtesan Her book, tentatively titled Modern Courtesan, will be ready for publication in the spring of 2016.  Excerpts from it, along with other juicy tidbits, can be found on

She holds a Bachelor’s Degree in Accountancy from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, a Master’s Degree in Psychology, and two Life Coaching certifications.  She has also completed extensive training in Non Violent Communication, Inner Relationship Focusing, and Mind Clearing to further understand and accommodate the deeper emotional needs of the men she has relationships with.

She currently spends her days writing, enjoying a small handful of long-term companions, and coaching people who would like to incorporate the courtesan approach to intimacy into their personal lives.  The evenings she spends with her wonderfully supportive partner.  She is based in Los Angeles, CA.  For more information about her coaching, blog, and upcoming courses, please visit  You can also follow her @CourtesanJacqui