Exploring Women in their 50s on Ready for Love Radio

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Men often say they don’t understand women and that may be even more accurate when it comes to women in as they get older. Women may be even more confused about themselves as they get older.

I’m Nikki Leigh, a Love and Relationship Coach and the host of Ready for Love Radio . On this week’s podcast, I decided to tackle the topic of women in their 50’s on my show. I turned 50 a few months ago and it seems like it would be fun to get a couple of my female friends together to talk about what its like to be a woman in our 50s – and to share that conversation with my listeners.

We’ll start out with a list of things I want to talk about, but its hard to tell what direction the conversation may talk, but I feel confident it will be lively and unpredictable. Two of us are single and I posted an invitation on m Facebook account for a married woman in her 50s who would like to join us to talk about relationships, intimacy and sex on the radio – and I got a response…..  join us to see what happens.

I’ll include some links below to give you some additional information – and we’ll tease a couple of additional shows. There will be some more information coming up later that will tie back to this content too 🙂

This podcast will originally air Thursday April 7, 2016

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Roylin Down’s Store – http://www.trystology.com/

Roylin Down’s Blog – http://www.trystology.net/

RockOut to KnockOut Cancer 2016 in Pittsburgh PA – July 30, 2016 https://www.facebook.com/events/799468130173805/

Nikki’s Kissing Report – http://www.amazon.com/How-Kiss-Head-Learn-Kissing-ebook/dp/B004R9Q72A/

Nikki’s E-book Love Accept and Respect Yourself Through the Seasons of Your Life – http://www.amazon.com/Yourself-Through-Seasons-Stages-Respect-ebook/dp/B00GXCB51M

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Meet the Team at Pleasure Evolution

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Meet Rebekah Beneteau and Trevor Jones from Pleasure Evolution. They are my guests on this podcast of Ready for Love radio.  We air –

Thursdays 9 pm ET/6 pm PT 

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Some of the topics we discuss include

  • The Sacred Prostitute
  • Sexual Trauma Survivors
  • Fantasizing – How it Can Work for You
  • Can an atheist include spirituality in their love and sex life
  • Increase joy and adventure in your sex life
  • What are Gratified Life Sessions – how can you get one FREE
  • What is Pillow Talk with Rebekah & Trevor

About Pleasure Evolution

Rebekah Beneteau and Trevor Jones are Sex, Kink and Intimacy Coaches, Professional Dom and Lifestyle Domme and Workshop Leaders. They bring a shamanic, spiritual and sexual approach to all of their work in order to help people cultivate their unique sexual authenticity. They work privately with individuals and couples as well as facilitating play parties and workshops in cities up and down the east coast. Their work runs the gamut from BDSM techniques to intimacy and relationship skills for better sex. Their light-hearted approach will leave you entertained, educated, and transformed.

The 21 Day Website Link – www.pleasureevolution.com/21days

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Sexual Confessional by Nicole DelaCroix on Ready for Love Radio

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Join your host Nikki Leigh and author, Nicole DelaCroix, for a lively discussion about social media, sex and a sex survey that Nicole did, which lead to her latest book, Sexual Confessional.

Ready for Love Radio airs

Thursday at 9 pm ET/6 pm PT

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About Nicole DelaCroix –

Blogger; author; IT professional; avid Tweeter; closet Anglophile; and member of the Atlanta Writer’s Club with addictions to British tea, Doctor Who and soccer. With a strong will and precocious nature, she is the atypical Southern belle, preferring science and reason. Diversity extends to her writing as well as she writes about anything that strikes her interest. Fiercely loyal to friends and family, she maintains sarcasm is a legitimate art form and challenges conventional thinking.

Connect with Nicole

Website:  http://nicole-delacroix.com/

Facebook:  http://www.facebook.com/writer.nicoledelacroix

Twitter:  http://twitter.com/NicoleDelaCroix

To order Sexual Confessional:  Amazon.com

Swinging Lifestyle with Cooper S Beckett

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There are many misconceptions about swinging, polyamory, open relationships, non-monogamy and other similar relationship types. In this Ready for Love podcast, I talk with Cooper S Beckett about the differences between these and we delve into details about the swinging lifestyle. Cooper offered my listeners a special offer on his book – A Life Less Monogamous, check below for details.

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These are some of the topics we will discuss –

  • The differences between swinging, polyamory, open relationships & non-monogamy
  • First dates for swingers
  • Male sexuality and swinging
  • Give yourself permission to screw up
  • Nerves, dysfunction and swinging
  • Jealousy and swinging
  • Changing relationship dynamics
  • Sexy Schrodinger
  • Sex is sex with or without penetration
  • Intolerance and judgment in and out of the lifestyle
  • The importance of communication between partners

Special Limited Time Offer for My Listeners for A Life Less Monogamous

As a special offer for listeners, I’m giving 10% off A Life Less Monogamous using promo code READYFORLOVE when you purchase through Cooper’s website at http://www.alifelessmonogamous.com

Cooper S Beckett’s Bio – 

Cooper S. Beckett is the founder of Life on the Swingset &  host of its swinging & polyamory podcast. He speaks and teaches classes on pegging, swinging, polyamory, play parties, and non-monogamy. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He has written two books. My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory & A Life Less Monogamous, and is working on two more, The Big Book of Swinging, and Approaching The Swingularity.

Connect with Cooper – 


Website URL – coopersbeckett.com

Facebook URL – http://facebook.com/coopersbeckett

Twitter Name @coopersbeckett

Sexless Marriage and Increasing Intimacy in Marriage with Liam Naden

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Join Nikki Leigh, love coach and host of Ready for Love radio. Liam Naden, a relationship coaching and author joins me for this podcast. His specialty is helping people in marriages and relationships in trouble. So, we will talk about sexless marriages and working on problems in your relationship. We will also talk about things to do before getting into a new relationship to help you have a positive and healthy relationship.

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We will discuss –

  • What is a sexless marriage
  • How common are sexless marriages
  • What causes or prompts this situation
  • How can you work on your relationship
  • What should you do before having a committed relationship
  • And much more….

Liam headshotAbout Liam Naden

Liam Naden is a marriage and relationship coach, specializing in helping couples and individuals to save and strengthen their marriage when it gets into trouble. He is the author of more than 25 Kindle books (including 10 bestsellers), which include “The Sexless Marriage Cure” and the #1 best seller “How to Save Your Marriage – When Your Spouse Doesn’t Want To

He is the creator and host of the podcast, “Growing in Love for Life – Save and Strengthen Your Marriage” and also the creator of two marriage-saving programs. Originally from New Zealand, he is now based in Europe and shares his information with couples and individuals from around the world.

Book: The Sexless Marriage Cure

Details here: http://www.amazon.com/Sexless-Marriage-Cure-Partner-Interested-ebook/dp/B0075ICGLG/

Website URL – www.liamnaden.com

Facebook URLs – https://www.facebook.com/GrowingInLoveForLife/


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Changing the World One Orgasm at a Time with Michael Schuessler

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On Ready for Love radio this week, I talk with Michael Schuessler about how he helps people to improve their love lives and sex life. He also helps people to understand that it all begins with learning to love ourselves….

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These are some of the things we discuss —

  • Michael’s early sexual experiences
  • Deeper knowledge about the g-spot & orgasms
  • Patience & communication
  • Ego and intimacy
  • Definition of Self – Love
  • And much more….

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A self-help, relationship, stamina, and confidence-building book, promoting POWERFUL ORGASMS . It is a quick easy read and simple to accomplish. The G-spot has NEVER before been approached in this way before, by relating the male’s genitalia, to that of the females, or through the sensation of touch.

It Also shows the dualities between the fabled “HOLY GRAIL” and the beautiful women that are within our presence daily. The book pays tribute to them and reminds us to continually cherish them for they hold within them this beautiful chalice of eternal youth, life and of seemingly immortality.

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Poem – The Mirror

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I spotted this on a Facebook page (Goddess of Sacred Sex) and really liked it. You could also call it – “what’s good for the goose is good for the gander” or “turnabout is fair play” or any of those cliches.

To any man or woman who wants to be free in a relationship – read this. I think its fine as long as both people in the relationship agree. This poem is about a man who wanted to be free – but didn’t want the women he was involved with, to be free.

Feel free to share your thoughts….


He said – I like many women.
I can’t be just with one.
She answered with a smile.
He said – That’s me. I am free and
I don’t owe anything to anybody.
She lit up a cigarette and looked down.
He said – I like women who understand me
and respect my freedom.
And I do not intend to change it.
She smiled and exhaled a plume of smoke.
He said: Let’s have fun, I like you.
She stubbed out her cigarette
and looked him straight in the eye.
He realized she doesn’t mind.
He asked – You must have been with many men?
She hugged him and pulled him closer.
He asked – do you feel good with me?
She closed her eyes and kissed him.
Leaving in the morning he said:
Everything was amazing, just
let’s keep this between us.
She reached out and flicked an invisible
speck of dust from his shoulder.
He said – I’ll call sometimes.
She nodded and closed the door.
He called her by evening of the day.
She wasn’t at home.
He barely managed to contact her late at night
She allowed him to come to her place after a week.
He asked – Well, did you had fun without me?
She smiled and offered him a coffee.
He was calling her almost everyday.
Sometimes she just doesn’t pick up.
He was coming to her only if she allowed.
She didn’t explain why the invitations were so rare.
He realized he wanted to be with her,
fidgeting when she didn’t answer his calls.
He went out of his skin when he knew people
have had seen her with someone. He wanted
everyone to know that they are together.
She disagreed.
He arrived with a huge bouquet of red roses.
She accepted the flowers, but asked him
to never come without invitation.
He wanted to ask her to marry him.
She said – That’s me.
He lit up a cigarette.
His hands were shaking.
She said – I am free.
Suddenly he felt cold.
She said – I don’t owe anything to anybody.
He felt as if his heart is about to stop.
Then she added – and I do not intend to change it!


Music & Relationships with Ray Powers

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Music and relationships — we’re all familiar with couples who talk about “our song” and we know there are certain staples that everyone seems to use at their wedding reception. But is there a deeper correlation between music and our relationships – personal, business & intimate?

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My guest is an expert on music from concept to songwriting, to production and performance and I’m a Certified Relationship Coach – and we’re going to discuss these topics and much more:

  • How can you bring music into a relationship
  • Did a partner get you interested in a new type of music or group
  • Does a person’s musical choices influence what you think of them
  • Mix tapes and the 21st century equivalent
  • Relationship songs
  • How does music connect us
  • How does music help to create human intimacy
  • Why do some songs resonate with people more than others
  • Music and our emotions, mood and moments
  • What is it about music that stimulates us

On this podcast my special guest has been in the music business for decades. He is also the host of The Ray Powers Hour which airs just before me on New Visions Radio. That’s right – his name is Ray Powers and you can find out more about him in the bio below.

About Ray Powers – 

2014 was a landmark year for three-time Billboard™ Songwriting Award winner and six-time 2015 Nashville Universe Award nominee RAY POWERS. His two most recent singles, ‘It’s You’ and ‘One Kiss’ both reached #1 on the VRadio Nashville charts in March and July of 2014, respectively – and the independent label Mad Hands Records releases were soon distributed worldwide to over 120 countries by way of more than two dozen major distributors including Sony Music Unlimited.

As a bassist, Powers has backed such legends as Rock and Roll Hall of Fame members, The Drifters; along with million-selling stars Lou Christie, Tavares, The Skyliners and many more. As a solo artist, Ray has capitalized on his recent success and is currently supporting the still-charting ‘One Kiss’ on his ‘Serious About Fun’ tour.

In 2015, Powers launched his top-rated music-based talk show: the RAY POWERS HOUR and found immediate success. The #1 internet-based show airs on Thursday nights 8-9pm EDT.

Listen to The Ray Powers Hour Live Thursdays at 8 pm ET/5pm PT at http://www.newvisionsradio.com 


The Male G-Spot – Have You Found It Yet

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The G-spot for men and women is a touchy subject for some people – but the level of pleasure that can be derived from finding and stimulating it is definitely worth the effort.

There has been a lot of media coverage lately about whether the female G-spot exists. My friend and mentor Dr Ava Cadell was interviewed for an article on ABCNews.com about the female G-spot (If you would like to read that article, click this link.)

The reason I mentioned the local media coverage about whether the female G-Spot exists is because I got an interesting idea tonight. And, people who know me, know that interesting ideas usual prompt me to write a blog post 🙂

There is a recent study that claims women do not have a G-spot. I personally think that is wrong. Okay, maybe many women haven’t found their G-Spot and some may not even care to find it. Here is my question – do the “experts” think that men have a G-Spot? Ah, now if the experts were convinced men have a spot that causes much more intense and satisfying orgasms – I bet they would spend a fortune studying this. Can you imagine the line of volunteers to participate.

I believe men do have a spot that is very similar to the female G-Spot, but for some people it can be very hard to find. You may wonder why its so hard to find. That is because of where its located…. it is in the anus – not far inside, but inside. That’s right – someone has to insert their finger into your anus to find this spot. Now you’re starting to understand the title of this blog aren’t you?


This picture is a little “busy” – but it shows the way to find the male G-Spot. Someone simply slides a finger or two into the anus and crook the finger in a “come here” motion. It is good to lubricate the finger first and some people prefer to wear gloves or a finger cot. It is also great if the man thoroughly cleans the area before trying this.

A friend mentioned that he would like to try this with someone since he hadn’t tried it yet. I know he’s seeing a couple of women, so I asked if he had mentioned this to them. His answer was “no – they will do it if they want to.” I had to disagree with that comment and its one of the reasons I’m writing this post.

How many women out there in the blogosphere would be hesitant to mention this to their man or to slid a finger in? So, I asked my friend if he had done this to women he had been with – his answer was “yes”. My next comment was that the next time he is playing with his finger(s) in her butt, he could say something like, “I’d love for you to do that to me.” I also suggested that he should say that to the more adventurous woman 🙂

I know that some people have issues with anything being inserted into their anus and that is their prerogative. I’m just mentioning and explaining this for people who would like to try something new – that can be very satisfying.

I recently completed the G-Spot certification course (home study course) through Loveology University and there is a section in that class about the male G-Spot. I’ll share a few things from the class and the link for more info.

I’ve heard many people in the media and on several segments of The View complain that saying there is a G-Spot is causing unnecessary stress and pressure for men and women to find the G-Spot. I have a couple of comments about that –

1 – if people want to look or feel for it, they should have the information

2 – just like anything in life, not everyone is the same, so why not at least try to see if you can locate it

3 – it can be an incredible orgasm and well worth the effort to find it

4 – even if you don’t find the right spot right away, you and your lover will learn more about your body and could definitely find new ways to satisfy you.

The Male G-Spot – some details: (excerpts from G-Spot Certification Course from Loveology University)

Men have a G-spot too. It is the prostate gland, which can be excited by massage to arouse your lover to new levels of intimate pleasure since the area of the anus is surrounded with sensitive nerve endings.

One reason it is called the ‘Hero spot’ is because it takes a hero to be adventurous, secure in his masculinity and trusting with his partner in order to embark on Hero Spot exploration. Others refer to it as the male G-spot because the intensity of the orgasm is similar to what a woman feels.

The male prostate is deeper and resides at the neck of the bladder and that is where a valve dictates if the man is going to ejaculate or urinate. It is important to know that men cannot come and go at the same time.

The prostate can be effectively stimulated by the insertion of a finger or vibrator into your lover’s anus. Women with short fingers may not be able to get to it, in which case a G-spot vibrator for women works just as well for men.

1.Lubricate your finger or vibrator and insert palm up, in a “come hither” motion inside his anus. Once you feel the sensation of pushing against a walnut-sized lump, you have reached the prostate or male G-spot.
2.Apply a light pressure either tapping, rubbing or stroking towards the perineum (the landing strip between the anus and the testicles) to create pleasurable sensations for him.

3. Ask your lover what feels best. Some men say their pleasure zone is just one knuckle inside the anus; others are deeper. Levels of pleasurable response vary with each individual.

Be sure to ask your lover how he likes to be stroked, including what kind of pressure and motions feel best.

Once you get comfortable with this – you can give your man a bigasm – he will absolutely love that. Imagine his satisfaction if you are stimulating 2 erogenous zones on his body at the same time and he reaches orgasm. Its mind blowing and the full instructions are in the course 🙂 Actually, instructions for the male and the female trigasm are in the course…..


Any thoughts or experiences you would like to share?

Maggie Bain, Author of Love on the Rock

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Your host and love coach Nikki Leigh welcomes Relationship & Intimacy Specialist to Ready for Love Radio.

Join us for an interesting variety of topics – included in the video and much more. Let’s have a direct conversation about how to deepen the intimacy in your relationship. Is the spark gone or dying out? Do you want more love and passion?

Tune in Thursday nights 6 pm Pacific/9 pm Eastern on www.newvisionsradio.com for love, relationship, sex and intimacy topics each week.

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