Pat Robertson Should Never Give Advice

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It really is that simple – Pat Robertson is totally out of touch with common sense and reality and this post on the Huffington Post proves it…

Pat Robertson Tells Wife Of Cheating Husband To Be Grateful For Marriage, Make Home Enticing

Responding to a question from a viewer, Robertson said that married men “have a tendency to wander” and it is the spurned wife’s job to focus on the positive and make sure the home is so enticing, he doesn’t want to stray.

“I’ve been trying to forgive my husband for cheating on me,” the viewer writes. “We have gone to counseling, but I just can’t seem to forgive, nor can I trust. How do you let go of the anger? How do you trust again?”

While Robertson’s co-host hedged on the question, calling forgiveness “difficult” and spousal infidelity “one of the ultimate betrayals,” Robertson got right to the point.

“Here’s the secret,” the famous evangelical said. “Stop talking the cheating. He cheated on you, well, he’s a man.”

The wife needs to focus on the reasons she married her spouse, he continued.

“Does he provide a home for you to live in,” Robertson said. ‘Does he provide food for you to eat? Does he provide clothes for you to wear? Is he nice to the children… Is he handsome?”

Robertson also offered a little advice on the “tendency of man.”

“Recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit,” Robertson said. “What you want to do is make a home so wonderful that he doesn’t want to wander” or give in to the “salacious” magazine pictures and Internet filled with porn.

To Read the Rest of the Article, click the link – http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/15/pat-robertson-cheating-husband-wife-marriage_n_3281416.html

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Hmmmm – I don’t think I know where to start with that, but these actions are one of the things that make people skeptical about religion.

I think there were 10 words he said in that video that I agree with, but the majority sounded like “boys will be boys” to me.

I grew up around this kind of mentality is some ways with my father and grandfather. Not involving cheating – but about the man’s responsibility and the woman’s responsibility. I also saw over 40+ years, what it does to the people in those types of relationships. I’ve seen the surviving spouses attitude after the death of their spouse and how these attitudes and behavior by parents, affected their children. From my personal experience, this mentality does not work and it certainly doesn’t increase the strength of the relationships or the respect and love the spouses have for one another.

For men and women – it won’t help you to focus on the cheating. Be brutally honest with yourself and figure out why he cheated. You can’t fix a problem until you figure out the root cause of the problem. There are many reasons why partners cheat – its a matter of finding that root cause.

Each partner should work to remember why they fell in love with their partner, and to look good for each other, to treat each other well, to do their share around the house and for the family, to maintain a real intimacy with one another and much more. If any of these things are lacking in your relationship – you will be better served to sit down together and have an open and honest discussion — without judging or condemning each other for the way you feel.

Its not always easy, but isn’t your relationship and your family worth the effort?? If you need help – you are welcome to contact me. I’m a love and relationship coach and can help you talk with each other, to draw out the information you need to share and to mediate the conversations. I can be reached by clicking on the “contact” link on the right or at nikki @ nikkileigh.com

 

Gyrating Chubby G Review (Gyration Sensations)

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Are you looking for a slightly different sex toy? Ladies often for the tall, dark and handsome, thin with muscles in all the right places. This time I think you will want to try a Chubby G. Trust me on this – you want to check it out.

The Gyrating Chuggy G is a little different, but it is attractive in some unique ways.

First it is shorter than usual – but it’s a great length to tease and stimulating that 2-4” at the front of the vagina that love extra attention.

Second it is curved to stimulate the G-spot. The tip of the curve is a bit more substantial than some of the less chubby g-spot massagers.

Third it has little vibrating nubs to tease your clitoris and all those sensitive areas that love oral stimulation. So, when your partner isn’t there to give you that awesome attention with his tongue and lips – you can get stimulation from the nubs on the Chubby G.

There are 2 energizing vibration settings and they give powerful vibrations from the 3 AA batteries. It also has an easy on/off button on the end of the toy for easy operation.

You or your partner can also use this for anal stimulation and massage – if you like a little more hefty anal stimulation. The shape is also great for anal play since it has a solid base that will enable safe anal play. However, if you’re new  to anal play, you should ease into a toy of this diameter. Either way – be sure to use plenty of your favorite lube – but don’t use a silicone lube, since this is a silicone toy and that lube will ruin the toy.

Master Sexpert Tips – Some tips for you and your partner. Remember, you can have fun with the Gyrating Chubby G alone or with your partner…

  • use your imagination
  • when stimulating the g-spot remember that it will feel like you have to pee when you are very stimulated – don’t stop
  • use your imagination with your body and your partner
  • use plenty of lube for any anal play
  • never use silicone based lube with silicone toys
  • this toy has a lot of interesting shapes and textures – get creative
  • Have Fun and Communicate!

 

Gyrating Chubby G (Gyration Sensations – http://calexotics.com/p-23832-gyration-sensations-gyrating-chubby-g.aspx

  • Bulk Weight: 7.7(oz) / 0.22(kg)
  • Designed and sized for intimate “G” contact
  • Super powerful vibrating and gyrating Silicone massagers with extra girth and soft pleasure nubbies
  • 2-speed
  • Push button control
  • Silicone (massager) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (décor ring) TPE (button)
  • 3.25” x 1.5”/8.25 cm x 3.75 cm (insertable)
  • 6.75” x 2.75”/17.25 cm x 7 cm (overall)
  • Requires 3 AA Batteries

How Do You Describe Sex?

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How do you describe sex?

Do the words you use describe a mechanical exercise or an artistic, sensual and loving activity?

Describe Sex

A Successful Plan to Set and Reach Your Goals

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This is the time of year when so many people are talking about New Years resolutions. I’ve never really gotten excited about resolutions – mainly because very few people ever follow through on any meaningful resolutions.

However, I definitely think people should set and work to reach meaningful goals. We all know that it does take work to actually reach your goals. But it also takes a realistic strategy.

Here are some tips from Dr Phil on how to set and reach your goals –

Seven Steps to Reaching Your Goals

Successfully executing any personal strategic plan for change requires that as you develop your plan, you effectively incorporate set and reach your goalsthese seven steps for attaining each and every goal:

1. Express your goal in terms of specific events or behaviors.

2. Express your goal in terms that can be measured.

3. Assign a timeline to your goal.

4. Choose a goal you can control.

5. Plan and program a strategy that will get you to your goal.

6. Define your goal in terms of steps.

7. Create accountability for your progress toward your goal.

For more details about each of these steps, visit http://drphil.com/articles/article/45/

If you’re serious about setting realistic goals that will benefit you personally and about reaching these goals, consider working with a coach. I’m a life and relationship coach and would love to help you determine the areas of your life that you can improve and setting a realistic plan to help you reach your goals. I don’t do the actual work for you – but help you make a meaningful and positive change in your life. I can be reached through the “contact” button on the right or through lovecoachjourney@gmail.com

 

 

 

4 Unique Ways to Get Out of The Doghouse with Your Girlfriend

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1. Hire a Mariachi Band or Local Acapella Group to Serenade Her

Unless she truly hates you, this will surely put a smile on her face and have her inviting you back into her comfort zone again.

Be sure to pick a humorous or joyful song; go for a sense of fun, not desperation.

2. Pay a Homeless Guy $5 to Hold Up a Sign for HerMan-in-doghouse

If you live in a major metropolitan area, chances are you and your girlfriend regularly walk by homeless people.

They would love to have $1, let alone $5. Find a homeless person along the route she usually walks on her way to work.

Come up with a witty sign, like “Angela, John Would Like to Apologize for Going to Poker Night Instead of Visiting with You and Your Family. Will you Forgive him? – From John”

Or whatever — be sure to be creative and witty. I guarantee she will get a kick out of this. You might have to show the homeless guy a picture of her so he knows he needs to get her attention, but having her name on the sign should do the trick.

3. Propose Marriage to Her at a Baseball Game

This one only works if she will go with you to a sporting event. During 7th inning stretch, half-time or throughout the event, they will often post announcements up on the big screen displays throughout the stadium.

Before the game, visit the gaming office where you can tell them to make these announcements, and say that you’d like to make on for a wedding proposal. (or perhaps just to say hi, if she wouldn’t react nicely to a full-on practical joke like this!)

Be sure to keep an eye on the big screen throughout the game, so as not to miss the announcement.

4. Write Your Message in the Sky

We’ve all seen this in the movies, but how many people actually have the guts to go through with it in real life?

For as little as $100, you can hire an airplane to fly a message to your girlfriend across the sky.

Image Credit – http://www.taurusarmed.net/forums/lounge/100986-doghouse-again-2.html

First Time Meeting After Chatting Online

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Technology has always been there to make lives of people easier. In fact, thanks to technology the world of emotions has also been conquered.  Don’t try to think dirty here folks.  What I’m talking about is the love connection that can happen through online dating sites and chatting rooms or software such as ICQ, MSN or MIRC.

Thanks to these websites and chat software people have been given a better chance to find their partner.  This is because people are given the chance to be connected wherever they might be.  All different cultures and walks of life are able to meet with a simple click of the keyboard.  In short a person has got a better chance to meet his or her partner because of the greater number of daters.  It is also easier to meet people online thanks to online date sites and chat rooms.

After chatting for a while and getting to know one another, it would be natural to meet.  It would be a pretty shallow relationship if both of you are happy to be forever just

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chatting.  Both persons may just be really looking for someone to talk to.

Finding love through the internet offers the two sides to get intimate right away.  This is because it is easier to be yourself when chatting online. Just imagine that you can say anything stupid and you wont see the other person thinking that its corny.  Instead most chatters, even though you are pretty corny just type LOL (laugh out loud).

Because of the perception that you have built about yourself and the other person, meeting them becomes very hard.  This is because of the perception you have given to him or her during chatting could not be really you.  Both of you will then have higher expectations of who the real person really is.

Another problem that online chatting could present is the confidence of a person.  Since it is easier to talk online, a person who is very shy or timid may have a hard time keeping up with who he or she really is.  The person instead is like living both worlds.

When also meeting for the first time after long periods of chatting that could last in the wee hours of the morning, is being able to adjust.  Both of you would have to figure out that it would be harder to talk on real life because of certain other factors involved. You are now both able to see the persons mannerisms.  This will be the toughest part that you would have to overcome.  Once you have gone past this, the rest will be easier.

It is suggestible though to meet sooner rather than later. When meeting earlier at the chatting stages, this prevents both person having higher expectations. This also helps both parties to decide right away whether they are just better of friends or continue to develop the relationship. This helps both parties prevent disappointment and heartaches.

How to be Sensitive with Women

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If you are hoping to be successful in the world of seduction, you’re going to have to know how to be sensitive. When a woman looks at a man, from her unique perspective, one of the key things she sees is how sensitive you are. It can truly be a pass or fail characteristic. If the lady in your life doesn’t see a sensitive side, she’s going to be put off. Personality counts for so much, especially if you’re hoping to go further with a relationship.

To begin with, it’s important to understand just what sensitivity is. Sensitivity, or being sensitive, is just one of those things that’s gotten such a bad rap as to make it virtually a taboo. But false impressions are to blame for that, and we can dismiss such misconceptions here so we can get on with the business of becoming a more sensitive man. But what sensitivity really is, in truth, is responsiveness to things around you. It’s a general sense of what’s going on.

Unfortunately, you may be thinking you’ve already got it pegged. But don’t think it’s just a matter of self-awareness and a general idea of the world around you. The sensitivity women want in a man goes a bit further. Or, put more directly, women are looking for a specific kind of sensitivity in men.

Here’s an example you’re sure to remember from some movie you once saw: a young couple are walking along a street at night, and the temperature is dropping. Conveniently, she had forgotten to bring a coat, but he had remembered to bring his. He notices her shivering, and quickly offers his coat to her, despite his own need for the coat.

Okay, that’s a basic example. But what matters is that the guy was aware of his girlfriend’s need, and he did something about it. Moreover, he made a sacrifice for her. This is a big deal. When a man can be more concerned about the welfare of someone else than himself, he’s got a chance to impress the ladies.

Setting the Mood with Your Date

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Nothing makes for a more romantic gesture than one that is made purely for the sake of romance itself. When it comes to seducing a woman if you want to make a really great impression on us then youll want to pull out all the stops and create a romantic date without waiting for a special occasion. Not to mention theres no rule that says you have to wait for a certain day or time.

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This particular tip requires knowing a bit about your lady and what she likes and does’nt like. But you don’t have to know her like the back of your hand in order to make a truly romantic evening for the two of you to share. The most important thing is to consider what you know she finds romantic and then do your best to create that for her. The very fact that you thought of her and wanted to romance her out of the blue will really impress her and make her feel truly special.

Many of these suggestions would take relatively little time for preparation. Remember, its sometimes the smallest gesture that will really make a woman feel special. The first romantic setting is a candlelit picnic in a park or other quiet location. This is sure to make your lady feel special. There’s no special occasion needed. This is also easy to put together with a bottle of wine, some cheese, strawberries, whatever the two of you like.

If you have a portable CD player you can bring that along with a disc of romantic music and youll have an evening that the both of you are sure to remember. Just dont forget to check the weather and be sure to bring the blanket!

The next suggestion I have is good for any weather, a nice candlelit meal consisting of her favorite foods and dessert at your place. When youre planning this evening be sure to have soft, romantic music on and a nice bottle of wine. Her favorite flowers would be an extra nice touch. This meal could be prepared by you or ordered and picked up from a restaurant.

As long as you’ve taken care to choose what she likes its sure to be a huge hit! If your place tends to be a bit messy, be sure to take the extra bit of time to clean it up so that shes not tripping over your tennis shoes or gym bag.

6 Tips to Choose the Best Place for a First Date

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Lets assume for a minute that you have met a great girl and that you want more than a one-night-stand. You want to have a good time with her because you want to develop a long-term relationship.

I believe that there isnt a perfect general place for all first dates, just the perfect place for you and your future date. One where you have been with your ex date and it was great, could be a wrong choice for your date with another girl.

Make sure your first date will be a success choosing the right place. There are some rules and criteria that will help you to make the best decision:

  1. For your very first meeting it is suggested that you only make it brief but fun, inexpensive and relaxing.
  2. Chose the place for the first date according your date’s age and lifestyle. Maybe you don’t know too much about the women you are going to ask for a date, but you can make a clue about her, looking to how she is dressing and watching the type of people she is hanging around.
  3. Particularly on a first date, you may wish to leave early, or so may they. An exit plan for both guys and girls is always useful.
  4. Dates that will make you interact with the other person and share both your interests will not only teach you more about them, but also show how compatible you actually are. Sporting events, concerts and picnics are great places for first dates. You can talk, and being outside, everything feels less claustrophobic. It’s easy and relaxed and clothing usually isn’t a problem
  5. It makes a difference if you can find something that she will remember for a long time. If in your area is an event like circus, carnival, festival, don’t miss it and you two will have more fun than at a coffee place that’s for sure. There wouldn’t be any pressure; you will only have to enjoy the company.
  6. If you are dating late in the evening make sure that you walk in places where your date is feeling safe. Don’t forget that she does not know you very well and being alone with you in a place that is not public can make her feel insecure. It is normal!

By being unique and creative, you’ll stand out among the other guys she’s dated and she will want to be with you again.