Love — there are many definitions of love – but this is one of my favorite – “Love is accepting someone just the way they are without trying to change or improve them.” I completely agree – if you don’t love the person for who the are – then its not love. People do not change – so, getting into [...]

When I do interviews – one of the most popular topics is oral sex, for men and women. The funniest interview was with a man (I’ll keep his name to myself) who said he simply refuses to give his wife oral sex. However, he expect her to give him oral sex. Earlier that week, a friend sent me the link [...]

Some time ago, Oprah did a show about why millions of women are using porn and erotica.I thought it was very clear she was not comfortable with the topic or her guests. But in between the awkward segments with Oprah, there was some good information. Would you like to share your thoughts of why more and more women are writing, [...]

I was planning to write an article about unigasms, bigasms and trigasms, but this article has all the details and Dr Ava did a wonderful job with her instructions, so I’ll share her information with you. Even if you try these techniques and you don’t get it right the first time, remember what Dr Ava says — Practice, practice, practice…. [...]

Recently I was sharing some thoughts with a friend about what is and what is not kinky. So – I decided to open it up for more comments. I was trying to think of the sort of things that people have told me they think are kinky. I’m sure I missed plenty of activities – but I think this list [...]