What prompted you to learn more to become a Sexpert?
I FELL INTO IT. WORKING AS A JOURNALIST IN ST. LOUIS, I INTERVIEWED MASTERS AND JOHNSON IN THEIR WANING YEARS. THE ARTICLE FOR ST. LOUIS MAGAZINE WON SOME JOURNALISM PRIZES. THEN MY EDITOR MOVED TO NEW YORK, BECAME AN EDITOR AT PENTHOUSE FORUM AND ASKED ME TO WRITE FOR HIM. THUS BEGAN MY JOURNEY INTO SEX WORLD AS I CALL IT. I HAVE STUDIED WITH SOME OF THE BEST, WORKED WITH HELEN GURLEY BROWN, DR. RUTH WESTHEIMER, BOB GUCCIONE AND OTHERS AND OBSERVED AS A VOYEUR ALL MANNER OF SEX SCENES, INTERVIEWED THOUSANDS OF MEN AND WOMEN, AND CREATED AND TESTED TECHNIQUES. SO I CONSIDER MYSELF FIRST A SEX JOURNALIST, SECOND, A SEX TECHNIQUE AUTHORITY AND THIRD, AN EDUCATOR……BUT I AM FINE WITH “SEXPERT.”
MY NO-FAIL O TECHNIQUE, THE ORGASM LOOP, REALLY WORKS!
How long have you worked in this industry?
Speaking of the industry – how do you classify the industry or business that you work in?
SEX WORLD! THAT INCLUDES EVERYBODY FROM THERAPISTS THROUGH CALL GIRLS, SEX BOOK AUTHORS THROUGH STRIPPERS. IF WE ARE INVOLVED IN THE MARKETING OF SEXUALLY EXPLICIT MATERIAL, WE ARE DENIZENS OF SEX WORLD.
If you have a main focus or niche – what is it?
What lead you to that specialty?
RE. O LOOP—SO MANY WOMEN WANT TO HAVE ORGASMS DURING INTERCOURSE WITHOUT USING HANDS OR VIBE…..SO I CREATED THE TECHNIQUE TO DO THAT
What has been the hardest thing about your work?
MY FAMILY HAS NEVER BEEN THRILLED ABOUT WHAT I DO. TOO MANY MEN ASSUME IT MEANS I WILL DO ANYTHING, ANY TIME, WITH ANYONE. AND PRUDISH WOMEN! OY.
What has been the easiest thing about your work?
I LOVE SEX.
What has been the most rewarding thing about your work?
GETTING MAIL FROM A WOMAN WHO HAD HER FIRST ORGASM OR LEARNED TO HAVE THEM REGULARLY FROM THE TECHNIQUES AND TIPS IN MY BOOKS OR HEARING FROM A MAN WHO SAYS I HELPED HIS WIFE HAVE ORGASMS AND THAT CHANGED THEIR LIVES. READING LETTERS LIKE THAT IS A VERY HUMBLING EXPERIENCE.
What education do you have to do this sort of work?
I HAVE SCIENCE AND MATH DEGREES WHICH HAS GIVEN ME THE BACKGROUND FOR RESEARCH. I’VE ATTENDED COUNTLESS WORKSHOPS, TRAINING SESSIONS ETC. BUT WORKING FOR DR. RUTH REALLY GAVE ME THE EQUIVALENT OF A PHD IN SEXUALITY.
BY THE WAY, I AM A BIT OF A SNOB ABOUT THOSE PHDS OBTAINED THROUGH MAIL ORDER COURSES……NO WAY.
What additional training did you feel that you needed to do more for your clients?
WITH KIM ELLINGTON, I HAVE STARTED A NEW VENTURE, SEX BABES OF NYC. WE CHARGE HIGH FEES FOR “ACCESS”, FOR EXAMPLE, I WILL HAVE LUNCH OR DINNER WITH A MAN (HE PAYS FOR MEALS AND MY CAR SERVICE AND GIVES ME $500) SO HE CAN TALK TO ME ABOUT HIS SEX LIFE. HE CAN SAY ANYTHING. NO JUDGMENTS. I LISTEN, VOICE OPINIONS WHEN ASKED. I REALLY ENJOY IT AND SO DO THEY.
DO YOU KNOW THAT MEN OFTEN PAY CALL GIRLS JUST TO LISTEN TO THEM?
MEN AND WOMEN IN MARRIAGES AND OTHER COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS OFTEN DON’T TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES, NEEDS, FEARS. SHE MAY CONFIDE IN GIRLFRIENDS; HE DOESN’T CONFIDE IN GUY PALS.
Tell us about your business.
MY OTHER “BUSINESS” IS WRITING BOOKS
How long have you been in business?
25 YEARS, 20 BOOKS
Do you have a website and/or blog?
How could someone get in touch with you?
HIT THE EMAIL BUTTON ON THE BLOG
Who are your favorite types of client?
Would you like to share your most unusual experience?
HMMMMM…..LET ME GET BACK TO YOU ON THAT
How do you promote your business?
THE BLOG PROMOTES THE BOOKS. I DO FREQUENT RADIO INTERVIEWS
If so, definitely share some details and links for more information.
READERS CAN PURCHASE MY BOOKS ON THE BLOG OR AMAZON OR BN.COM OR IN BOOKSTORES
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