Among the many emotions that man was destined to experience, it seems that love could be the best. No wonder many people want to find their own true love, hope to be happy and live a life that is full of contentment and satisfaction in spite of the many trials life has to offer.
According to some surveys, most of the people want to marry some day, the desire to marry is why they are willing to go out on dates. In the U.S. alone, nearly 53% said they have dated more than one person at the same time.
However, the concept boils down to the fact that even if dating seems to be the ideal ways to start to develop a great relationship founded on true love, it cannot be concluded that the activity is relatively easy.
Let’s start with the idea of getting a girl. Many boys are having a hard time finding the best strategy to get girls. This is because many boys have fears, especially the fear of rejection.
So for those guys who want to know how to get a girl and ask her on a date, here are five ways tips that will help you get one and have fun:
1. Develop a dazzling personality
According to some statistical reports, almost 30% of the adult population in the U.S. who are engaged into dating activities stated that the most important attribute they are looking for in a guy is his personality. That is why most girls insist his looks are not that important, because his personality is important.
If you really want to succeed in getting a girl, develop the impression that you have the best personality in the world. This can be projected through your sense of humor, confidence, and the way you carry the conversation with wit. The best way to develop that impression – is to actually take the time and effort to develop the personality, it will help you attract the girl and likely make you much happier.
2. Be cool
The key to getting a girl would be to avoid projecting an air of desperation. Even if you have not dated a girl yet, try to be cool and create an impression that you want to get the girl because you like her and not because you are in desperate need of a partner.
3. Be ready for rejections
The problem with most people, especially guys, is that their dating and relationship expectations are too high. Almost 62% of people who date have admitted that people’s probabilities and expectations are very high these days.
So, it is necessary for people to learn to face rejections, especially men, so that getting girls would be easier. Keep in mind that girls can still say no even if you have the best car, good looks, and dazzling personality.
In the cases where you were not able to get the girl you want, try to reflect on what might have caused her to reject you. As the cliché says – there are other fish in the sea. In other words, there are other girls out there and evidently the girls that turned you down, weren’t right for you.
4. Consider Why She Said “No”
There are many cases where a girl might say “no” for two possible reasons: one is that she does not like you, and the second reason is that she wants to go out with you but not tonight. These are two different situations that you need to clearly understand.
The problem with some guys is that they take it personally when they receive some forms of rejections. So it is better to analyze the situation and the intention behind her “NO.”
5. Be casual
The best way to get a girl is to make her feel that the date would be very casual and would not involve conventional date things or anything that would imply romantic involvement.
What matters most is for the girl to enjoy her time with you. Then if you find that the first date turns into a good relationship in the future, the memory of your first date should have been vested on good recall.
The bottom line is that guys should never make the girls feel pressured into saying “yes” every time they are being asked to go out. On a final note – make sure she will be comfortable and would feel that she will be in good hands.
These are a few of the keys to successfully getting the girl to go on a date. If you are interested in learning much more about getting ready for a successful relationship and learning to date and truly connect with a potential partner – you may want to work with a relationship and dating coach. Feel free to learn more in my ebook – Make it Happen! Discover More Love and Passion – download your free copy today.