“Last night was intense. I cannot believe we even did that! I cannot wait to be alone again. It’s like a whole new level of the game just opened up for me. Just thinking about last night leaves me hot and unable to focus on anything.” Does this sound familiar? It probably doesn’t, unless you are in a brand new relationship.
New relationships always start out pretty steamy. There’s always excitement surrounding doing anything sexual with a new partner. It’s invigorating to say the least! Wouldn’t it be nice to keep that level of excitement even after years of being with your partner? Try spicing up your sex life with a little experimentation.
Be sure to talk openly about experimentation. It’s important to know and respect each other’s boundaries. Once you are both comfortable with each other enough to talk about the things you would like to try, it will make the experimenting loads of dirty fun!
Below is a short list of fun ways to add a zing of excitement to your sex life.
1. Try a little light bondage.
Use whatever your saucy little heart desires as bonding material. Try starting with an easy place, like your bed, and work up to the more exciting places, like your back porch railing or the stair case or even the tree outside!
2. Add Toys.
Take your partner to an adult toy shop (or shop online if you’re the shy type) and each pick out a toy that you would like your partner to use on you. Once you get home, let the fun begin. Make sure to let down your guards and guide your partner through what you want.
3. Make your fantasy come true.
Think of the sexiest place you would like to get frisky in, then go there. You and your partner should both take turns picking places. Don’t leave out any details. Make sure to make your real-life fantasy as true to your imagined one as possible. Dress the part!
4. Use your senses.
When one of our senses is taken away, our other senses are sharpened to make up for the lost. Try blindfolding your partner. They won’t know what to expect next. Every intimate touch will be heightened to its fullest. Use tingling lube or ice cubes to really drive their senses wild.
5. Videotape yourselves.
Try setting up a video camera and act out your scenes. Make sure to watch it after you’re through. Being caught in the act and liking it can be quite fun. Being able to laugh at yourselves sexually will lighten the mood and make it even easier to speak to your partner about sexy time.
Stacey Cavalari holds a B.A in Communications and currently writes for Viamedic.com , a safe pharmacy for consumers to obtain FDA-approved medications such as Viagra, Cialis and Levitra Online. Stacey uses her communications and research skills to cover health and wellness on the Viamedic.com Blog.