All aspects of our lives change and evolve over the years. We grow up, we grow mentally, physically and emotionally. And, we grow and change in our sexual behavior, expectations and so many other ways. Recently I wrote an article called Cumming of Age in Your 20?s and this is the next installment in that series.
In our 20s we experiment, spread our sexual wings and figure out some things about our sexual lives. Some people marry in their 20s while others wait till their 30s or later – that is part of our sexual journey.
Some of the things that are fairly usual for people and couples in their 30s, include:
- Experimenting with blindfolds, spanking and typing up a partner – some couples may opt to try more involved BDSM while others focus on more vanilla activities.
- Many couples hone their oral sex skills in their 30s – both giving and receiving. I would think this is a very good thing
- As women begin to get more comfortable with their sexuality – they are likely to have more orgasms
- Couples often have young children in their 30s and children can definitely disrupt or limit a couples’ sex life. It is very important for couples to put forth the effort to maintain their sex life and their time together – intimate or otherwise – for the health of their relationship.
- Many couples have had sex outdoors by their 30s – maybe in a car, in a secluded spot or possibly in their yard. There are many options – have you had sex outdoors?
- Straight women are likely to have gay male friends. Funny, I was having that conversation with a 16 year old female friend today and she totally agreed about having gay male friends. From what I’ve read, there is a definite symmetry between the minds of straight women and gay men, so it makes sense that they are friends.
These are only a few of the thing that may be true about your sex life in your 30s. What are some ways you care to share?
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