Unlock the “Man Code” on Ready for Love Radio

Steve “The Dean” Williams, a relationship and sex expert, is my guest tonight on Ready for Love radio. We will talk about an interesting variety of relationship topics.

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Some of the things we will discuss, include:

  • Why he says “no” to dinner dates
  • How to be marriage material instead of just a booty-call
  • Why some couples shouldn’t have weddings
  • Why you should not celebrate Valentines Day
  • For women: Find out how to attract the RIGHT man for YOU!
  • How to Cheat-proof your relationship.
  • For men: How to make sure that you never get ‘stuck’ with someone who you are settling for.
  • Manhood 101
  • For couples: Learn how to keep the fire lit
  • Learn what it takes to have a happy marriage

You never know what we may say next… tune in Monday nights at 7 pm Pacific/10 pm Eastern at www.newvisionsradio.com for Ready for Love radio with me, Nikki Leigh, you host and love coach.

If you miss the show – the podcast will be on my coaching site – www.lovecoachjourney.com/blog

You can find out much more about my work, and relationships at www.lovecoachjourney.com.

About Steve Williams

An expert in relationships of all stages from the single life to the married life and all points in between, Steve teaches men and women how to unplug themselves from the dating matrix of TV, Radio, and magazines.

Instead, Steve’s upfront no-nonsense blunt dating advice goes against every thing people have been taught. This isn’t “Chicken Soup for the Soul”. Instead Steve believes that In order to get your dating life right with the opposite sex, you first have to get yourself right.

Visit his website for more information – www.unlockthemancode.com

Maggie Bain, Author of Love on the Rock on Ready for Love Radio

Your host and love coach Nikki Leigh welcomes Relationship & Intimacy Specialist to Ready for Love Radio.

Join us for an interesting variety of topics – included in the video and much more. Let’s have a direct conversation about how to deepen the intimacy in your relationship. Is the spark gone or dying out? Do you want more love and passion?

Tune in Monday nights 7 pm Pacific/10 pm Eastern on www.newvisionsradio.com for love, relationship, sex and intimacy topics each week.

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From Adventurer Alone in Alaska to Cosmo Bachelor on Ready for Love Radio

On this podcast I am going to introduce you to an adventurer and scientist who spent 18 months alone in Alaska. We talk about his adventure in the wilds of Alaska and the wild adventures he found when he got back to civilization… This is the message he sent to entice me to have him as a guest on Ready for Love Radio

While living on a wilderness island in the Inside Passage of Alaska for years in isolation, studying
Michael-Modzelewski the wildlife (no female companionship), I wrote my first book, INSIDE PASSAGE: LIVING WITH BALD EAGLES, KILLER WHALES AND KWAKIUTL INDIANS. It was published by HarperCollins in NYC. Unbeknownst to me, Cosmopolitan Magazine, the best-selling women’s magazine in the world (in 100 countries; translated into 87 languages) chose me as one of their “Bachelors of The Month” and eventually “Man of The Year.” At the same time, AlaskaMen Magazine made me their centerfold story (I got a staple in my navel but got to keep my parka on : ) I went from famine to feast — from no dates in the Alaska wilderness to 5,000 letters from women around the world. I dated many, and that is how I eventually met my wife. It’s Everyman’s Fantasy with a Happy Ending.

Tune in Mondays at 7 pm Pacific/10 pm Eastern to hear the show.

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To get a bit of a preview – check out this video from an interview he did and find out what happened after he got all those letters….

Nikki Leigh and Marie Dubuque Have an Open Conversation About How to be Happier in Your Life

Marie Dubuque is a life coach who you may know from YouTube – www.youtube.com/mannersbymarie and www.youtube.com/mariedubuque

Relationship expert and life coach Marie Dubuque examines rudeness in the digital age. How do you handle it when someone blocks you on Marie Dubuque -RelationshipCoachFacebook? What do you say if you’ve just embarrassed yourself at a cocktail party and the host snubs you? From one blunder to another, Marie deals with every aspect of living amongst loud obnoxious people glued to their cell phones all day long. Marie talks about surviving and thriving in a society where rudeness has become a way of life. And she firmly believe you can be polite and kind and still get ahead in this world!

Marie has been a featured guest on radio and television stations across the country. Her articles have appeared in more than 100 publications nationwide. And this is one author who is not afraid of the camera! Her popular YouTube channels www.youtube.com/mannersbymarie and www.youtube.com/mariedubuque garner thousands of views daily.
Join us for an open, honest and often blunt conversation about some of the top topics she discusses on her YouTube channel every day.


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Body & Soul Attraction Review

There are easily hundreds of massagers/vibrators on the market. We’ve seen all the shapes, sizes, colors and materials – but for some reason, there is a new one that catches our attention. The Body & Soul Attraction is one of those. It is attractive, very smooth, has 8 fun and pleasing vibrations/pulses and escalation variations. It is a powerful toy.

This is a nice size for beginners or more experienced toy users. The massager is 6″ long and the interesting and curvy shape is
enjoyable. The “iridescent Satin Finish” is very attractive, but it also feels very good against your skin. It also provides very smooth massaging motions on your body, inserted into our body or in your hand. It is very easy to turn on and off – even with wet fingers. Simply push in on the power button for several seconds – to turn it off.

The Body & Soul can be used vaginally or anally for teasing, play and insertion. However, I have to include a warning that you should never fully insert an toy anally – unless it has a handle or string that you can hold onto. The angle of the tip can be a great way to massage your G-spot or to use it externally to massage your clitoris, vulva, anus, or nipples. With the wide variety of pulses and vibrations, you can tease and please your own body or your partners. body.

Like I always say – be creative, bring out the lube and have fun. Its great to try new things. If you and/or your partner don’t enjoy something, there’s no need to do it again. But there will be times when you will find new things that you do enjoy. Toys and massagers in particular can be a great way to break the ice and start to integrate new play and fun into your relationship. If you’re unsure – you also have the option to try out a new toy on your own to see what you enjoy and then share these insights with your partner.

Remember that its much easier and more pleasurable to help your partner know what you enjoy and what you would like to do with them – if you understand the things that feel the best for you. Here are a few tips –

Master Sexpert Tips -

Always clean your toys very well before and after play.
Using a lube can enhance your enjoyment and take some of the pressure and concern away if personal lubrication is difficult for you.
If you or your partner use this massager in or around your anus – be sure to hold onto it tight. This material gets very slippery when its wet. A trip to the ER would definitely ruin the mood…..
Never insert anything into your anus – and then into the vagina – without cleaning it thoroughly first.
Massagers can be used in many ways on many parts of the body – experiment with it turned off first and then try it in different positions and angles. Then you can play with the different vibrations, pulses, and escalations. There are many options.
Have fun!
For more details – http://calexotics.com/p-23849-body-soul-attraction.aspx

Bulk Weight: 3.3(oz) / 0.09(kg)
Seamless, silky smooth massager
Pleasing shapes for versatile use
Designer iridescent Satin Finish™
8 powerful functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation
Easy push button controller
Hold button for 3 seconds to turn off
ABS with Metallic Plating/ PU Cote (massager) ABS with Silver Plating (décor) Silicone (button)
6” x 1.25”/15.25 cm x 3.25 cm
Requires 2 AAA Batteries

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014

Each year there is a blogger who compiles her own list of the Top 100 Sex Bloggers. I would probably include some different blogs, but I like to share her list. We are each looking for something different when we search for information, so it is likely you will find someone on this list that you may enjoy.





You can find the entire post and more articles at – http://www.betweenmysheets.com/top-100-sex-bloggers-of-2014

This is my favorite time of year. My Christmas tree is twinkling in the background, my tummy is full of cookies, and my heart is toasty warm thinking about upcoming trips to see friends and family. It’s also my favorite time of year because I get to announce my new Top Sex Bloggers list. I love discovering all of the new blogs you’ve nominated and rediscovering old blogs I haven’t visited in way too long. And most of all, I love sharing what I find with all of you.

First, a big THANK YOU to our sponsors! Check out the sidebar for more information about sponsors, as well as my affiliate programs. I’d also love for you to consider becoming a paid reader via my Patreon page. It’s what pays to keep the lights on around here. :)

Also check out my sidebar for a list of past #1 winners, who have been retired for this list. I love all of the past #1 winners – they still have awesome blogs!

This year, I decided to do my list a little differently. Every year, I have a clear top twenty or so in mind, but once I get beyond that, thinks are a little fuzzy. What makes one blog a #37 and another a #38? What even makes one blog a #40 and another a #70? So, for 2014, I’ve listed my top 10, and then I have the rest of my list in alphabetical order, rather than in some kind of “who is better than whom” order. For the top 10, I’ve also included a blurb about why I like them so much and “recommend reading” – a post from the last year that I think is especially awesome.

I need your feedback: Do you like the list better in this order? Or do you prefer a complete numbered list? Please comment so I can make a decision for next year!

Before getting to the full list, I have one extra award to give out this year! This award celebrates a blog that is new since last year, and hasn’t quite been around long enough for the full TSB list below.

This year’s New Voice of the Year award goes to Erica Jagger from A Sexy Women of a Certain Age. I was introduced to Erica’s blog during my Post of the Year competition, and I fell completely in love. I can’t wait to see what she writes in 2015 and beyond.

>>Click here to tweet a congratulations message to Erica!

And now, without further ado, your Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2014:

1. Girl on the Net

Before I even started judging blogs this year, I knew Girl on the Net was going to be a contender for the #1 spot. Her blog is smart and sassy and sexy, and I also love how supportive she is of other bloggers in this little fucked up community we’ve got. This is one of the few blogs I make time to read every week, and I’m excited to continue reading Girl on the Net in 2015.

2. JoEllen Notte, The Redhead Bedhead

I was trying to think up the perfect words to talk about why I love The Redhead Bedhead, and what I came up with is this: JoEllen is simply an amazing writer. On top of that, she isn’t afraid to speak (write?) her mind, even when her opinion is contrary to what others are writing and even when the topics she’s discussing are tough. Even her reviews are amazing, and frankly, I skip over reviews on most sex blog since I already try out so many toys myself.

3. Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan, Oh Joy Sex Toy

Last year, Oh Joy Sex Toy was one of my “New Voices of the Year,” and the blogging team of Erika and Matthew went on to do GREAT things in 2014, included much-deserved attention from people like Amanda Palmer and Dan Savage. They’re best known for fun web comic style sex toy reviews, but they also tackle some super important issues like pregnancy and consent.

4. Nikki & Heather, Vagina Antics

Seriously, what’s not to love about Nikki and Heather. They’re super sexy writers, but the smut they publish is just the tip of the iceberg. They also cover super important topics like slut-shaming, the problems with porn, and obligation to a partner (post linked below). I equally love their erotica and their opinion pieces, and I think only the most talented writers can cover such a variety of topics really well.

5. BD Swain, learning how to tell you

This blog is hot. It’s my smutty, guilty pleasure. It doesn’t matter what your gender identity or sexual preferences – if you love good erotica, you will love BD Swain’s blog as much as I do.

6. Jillian Boyd, Lady Laid Bare

Jillian cracks me up. I mean, her posts are sexy as hell, don’t get me wrong. But she’s also super funny. If I had to sum up her writing style in one word it would be this: honest. Her posts don’t try too hard, which is a struggle for a lot of bloggers out there, especially those of us who write erotica. Nothing is forced, it’s just real.

7. Cheeky Minx, Love Hate Sex Cake

If you’re looking for hot erotica and photography, this is the blog for you. When I’m in the mood for some sexy self-love, I usually find myself binge-reading posts on Love Hate Sex Cake. And seriously, follow Cheeky Minx on Twitter too, because she’s just as hot in 140 characters as she is on her blog.

8. Lilly, Dangerous Lilly

I’ve been following Dangerous Lilly from the very beginning, and I love the transformation she’s gone through. While she started as a more general sex blogger, today she is a champion for safe sex toys. I admire her for not being afraid to call out companies who are selling unsafe toys, and for doing the hard work it takes to test toys so she can educate us about which toys we should be buying. Plus, she’s extremely supportive of the sex blogging community, which I love

9. Dr. NerdLove, Paging Dr. NerdLove

While I absolutely love erotica and reviews, I also love really great advice sites. Paging Dr. NerdLove is one of my favorites because he covers such a wide variety of topics and all of the advice he gives is fantastic. One common pitfall I find with more advice sites is that they get a little boring, but that definitely isn’t the case with Dr. NerdLove!

10. Hyacinth Jones, A Dissolute Life Means

I totally have a girly crush on Hyacinth Jones. I want to high-five her when she writes about amazing sex. I want to hug her when she struggles with a relationship. I feel like I know her through her posts, and I love when a sex blog draws me in like that.

And the rest, beyond the top ten, in alphabetical order:

Mother and Daughter Perspectives on Pageants and Modeling on Ready for Love Radio

Most women are aware that teen young women face many common challenges which can include body image and self-esteem issues. With all the bodily changes we go through during out teens, the challenges that many people face in school each day and many other concerns, mothers and fathers can face the challeneges of helping their teen daughters feel good about themselves. That can be a very big challenge.

On this podcast of Ready for Love radio – During the first 30 minutes, I interview Candy and her daughter Reilly to discuss these challenges and the ways Candy chose to help Reilly. In the latter half hour, I interview Reilly to get her thoughts and to see if she feels that modeling nad beauty pageants have really help her.

This podcast shares a lot of good ideas for moms and daughters and even if pageants and modeling aren’t right for you – Candy and Reilly share interesting things that can help your family.

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Waterproof Power Stud™

Cal Exotics has released the Waterproof Power Stud Curvy Dong – which is a penis shaped vibrator with a curved head. The curve is fairly subtle, but provides very nice vibration and stimulation on and around the g-spot. If you prefer not to enjoy this massage, just turn the curved portion of the vibe away from the front vaginal wall.

It is made from  Phtalate Free material – making the surface very smooth. The overall design includes life-like elements to make it look and feel like a real penis. Well — a penis with 3 speeds :) It is waterproof, so you can use it in the tub or shower if you prefer.

The Power Stud is a nice size – if you’re just starting to explore toys and want something smaller, this may not be the toy for you. But
with the 6″ length and 2″ around, it could be called a stud. The power button is easy to use, even with wet hands and in the tub. While the Power Stud is made of sturdy plastic – it is flexible enough to move with you or your partner.

If you’re looking for a nice size penis shaped vibe – this could be for you. And the curved head is a bonus – we could call it the cherry on top…..  Speaking of the top – the realistic feel of the head can be used for very nice stimulation on the clitoris, and the vulva – move it just like you would move the head of a penis… and enjoy.

Master Sexpert Tips –

1 – Always clean your toys before and after play.

2 – Use plenty of lube and especially for anal play

3 – If you choose to use the Power Stud for anal play – clean it thoroughly before moving to your vagina.

4 – Use your imagination and have fun!

5 – If you want to experiment with g-spot play – definitely use the Power Stud Curvy Dong, the curved head will feel good on you or your partner even if you don’t find the exact location immediately. But keep trying… its worth the effort.

Some additional details about the Waterproof Power Stud Curvy Dong – 

  • Power Stud™…Traditional designs with a contemporary flair. Body safe, push-button 3-speed controller, 100% waterproof.
  • Soft and flexible vibrators
  • 3-speed
  • Power packed
  • Push button control
  • Phthalate-Free PVC (vibrator) ABS/ABS with PU Cote (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (décor)
  • 2 AA batteries
  • 6.75” x 2”/17.25 cm x 5 cm

Lia Pleaser 2 (CalExotics)

You have to smile when you open a new toy and its called a pleaser. This toy is made of silicone and has that wonderful silky feel. There is a curved tip – which can be used for g-spot stimulation. If you like a firm g-spot touch, this will stimulate your g-spot, but the flexible tip may not give you enough pressure to orgasm. Keep in mind that you can use this flexible silky tip to massage any part of your body or your partner’s body – maybe a little clitoral stimulation and tickly your nipples… just to mention a couple.

There are raised circles about the shaft which is an interesting look and you may feel these circles when touching various parts of your body. You can use the Lia Pleaser to tease and please the vagina, the clitoris, anus, and even to stimulate the male prostate.

If you prefer a phallic shape and more specifically a tip that resembles the shape and feel of a penis — you should check out the Lia Pleaser 1. You can find out much more
here – http://www.calexotics.com/p-23510-lia-pleasers-pleaser-1.aspx

I do have one definitely thing I do not like about this toy. It is loud – well louder than I like J When the toy is buried inside your body or your partner’s body, the body
muffles the sound. But if you want to use the Lia Pleaser 2 to massage any outer part of the body, be ready for the noise. If you like to slide a toy in and out of the body – the vagina or the anus – the vibrator noise is louder a it is pulled out of the body. Its still a nice dildo, vibrator, stimulator, massager – just be ready for some noise, or the variable vibrations, pulses and escalations may excite you so much that you can drown out the sound… it is possible. Another quick note – I had some trouble getting the batteries right  – so keep playing with them if you have problems J

Master Sexpert Tips

  • I have recommended being very careful with anal toys to be sure they don’t slide in too far – or slip out of your fingers and “get lost”.  This toy is long enough, that you shouldn’t have concern with this toy.
  • Use plenty of lube (Anal Lube from System JO is a great choice) for anal massage
  • For women – never use a toy in the anus and move to the vagina without cleaning it thoroughly first – with toy cleaner or soap and water. This toy is a bit different since it has 2 different ends – but be sure to use both ends, or clean the end during your play time.
  • Be creative – this toy has a great shape, so use it at different angles to see which feel better for you.  Let your partner try many variations and let him/her know what you like better. Then use it on them
  • Be sure to thoroughly clean all toys before and after you use them. This is really easy with toy cleaner or soap and hot water.
  • If you want to share – clean your toys very well or you can each use a condom for your play and then clean the toy when you’re finished.
  • If you are a guy who really wants to have anal sex with his woman or man, you should have an open and honest conversation with them. In addition, if they agree to try it – start small and work up to a larger toy or your penis. Whether you’re a man or a woman – never rush the person who is receiving the toy or the penis – the receiver should be in control of the speed and force used in anal sex.
  • For people who are new to G-spot stimulation — I should mention that it feels like you need to pee, when the G-spot is stimulated – so use the bathroom before starting your exploration and stimulation.


Lia Pleaser Details –

  • Bulk Weight: 4.6(oz) / 0.13(kg)
  • Lia® is for lovers…Pure premium Silicone massagers, stimulators, and probes designed    for today’s discerning shopper. Only the finest of materials and components are used to create this outstanding collection!
  • Sensually curved pure Silicone premium massagers with an extreme power motor
  • Soft, flexible, pliable Silicone
  • 10 intense functions of vibration, pulsation, and escalation
  • Soft touch power and 10-function buttons
  • EZ on/off button
  • Silicone (vibrator, buttons) ABS (cap) ABS with Silver Plating (décor ring)
  • 2 AA batteries
  • 6.25” x 1.5”/16 cm x 3.75 cm


Lia Pleaser 2http://www.clubcalexotics.com/video/lia-collection and details – http://www.calexotics.com/p-23509-lia-pleasers-pleaser-2.aspx

Similar Items – http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/lia-twin-teaser

And http://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/lia-teaser-1


Sex Addiction – 2 Part Special on Ready for Love Radio

Part 1 of the Ready for Love Sex Addiction Special Event is an interview with a recovering sex addict and author. Part 2 of the event is an interview with a therapist and author of the Myth of Sex Addiction. Giving equal time to both sides of the topic. If you missed either show on Ready for Love Radio – click the links below to listen to the podcast ANY TIME.

You can listen to Ready for Love each week on your computer, tablet or smartphone 

Tune in to http://newvisionsradio.com/ — 7 pm Pacific/10 pm Eastern on Ready for Love Radio

Part 1 – Meet A. D. Burks, author and recovering sex addict 

FINAL-HeadshotJoin your host and love coach, Nikki Leigh, on Ready for Love radio for a frank discussion about sex addiction. Last week we shared the first segment of the interview with A D Burks – this week, tune in to hear both interviews during a full hour of Ready for Love radio. We start with whether sex addiction actually exists, how to tell if you or a loved one is a sex addict, how does pain manifest itself in addiction, what are the 4 steps you should use to overcome addiction and much more.

Nikki interviews author and recovering sex addict A D Burks to discuss his experience, his background and why he got involved in helping people have a more positive and healthy life and much more.

Visit this page to  read an interview with A D Burks – some of these questions were included in the show, but others were not.

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Part 2 – The Myth of Sex Addiction with Dr David Ley

Nikki Leigh, Love Coach and host of Ready for Love Radio welcomes Dr David Ley as her guest.   David LeyThe topic for discussion is Dr Ley’s book, The Myth of Sex Addiction and a number of other topics related to healthy sexuality. Check the short video below for more details about the show.

Dr David Ley is a clinical psychologist in practice in Albuquerque, New Mexico. He is the Executive Director of New Mexico Solutions, a large outpatient mental health and substance abuse program in Albuquerque, NM.

Tune in Monday nights at 7 pm Pacific/10 pm Eastern at www.newvisionsradio.com

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